Post Date July, 13 2023
Men have been struggling about how long it takes to make their women feel comfortable with orgasm. In fact, this sexual psychology is not only shared by men, but also by women. Most of these are not familiar with sexual techniques and do not have much sexual knowledge among netizens.
In fact, it is not necessary for couples to have sexual intercourse for too long. Prolonged sexual activity only brings negative burden to both parties and has no positive effect. Sexual health experts say that 10 minutes of sexual life is enough to reach Orgasm, and it is perfect.
Fox News reported that this is the first large-scale study conducted on the duration of sexual activity. Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people in the United States and Australia and found that substantive sexual activity (calculated from the start of sexual organ contact) is most suitable in 7-13 minutes. Most respondents, especially men, reported that having substantive sexual intercourse for more than 13 minutes increases fatigue and makes it difficult to recover physical strength; If it takes less than 7 minutes, there will be a sense of unfinished business.
It is said that this study is aimed at making many people understand that the claim that 'perfect sex takes longer and longer' is nonsense. Research leader Eric Kurt explained that people always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex.
Intentionally 'delaying time' can actually be harmful
Some people believe that men should have a robust penis, a firm erection, and tirelessly lingering all night. This is clearly a wishful thinking 'daydream' of people. However, many people take it for granted and even use it as a measure of sexual ability. As a result, people without problems begin to worry about their sexual performance, which may induce a series of Sexual dysfunction over time.
Men deliberately procrastinate, with the original intention of hoping that women can also obtain longer lasting pleasure and ensure that they can achieve wonderful heights. In fact, men should understand that there are many ways to satisfy women, such as adding, changing, and enriching the content of foreplay. Before substantive sexual intercourse, it is more effective to increase her appetite than monotonous mechanical movements.
In addition, men should learn more about their partner's sensitive areas and provide gentle and appropriate stimulation, which can better arouse women's desires and enable them to take more initiative in sexual activity. Women themselves should also communicate more with their partners and discuss issues that arise during sexual life, to make them understand that time is not an important factor in determining the quality of sexual intercourse. Sexual life is a matter for two people, and only when both parties truly pay attention and listen to each other's needs can it undergo a qualitative change.
