1. Tell a man how important he is
A man does not reject fulfilling his obligations to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him, he will selflessly sacrifice everything for his family and wife. On the contrary, if a man is uncertain about his family and women's feelings and even has unnecessary worries, he will act like a rogue. When it comes to family and their own women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life brings to a woman is to be a wife
2. Tolerance, truly understanding men's shortcomings and faults
Men attach much more importance to their families and women than women imagine, and they are always accustomed to treating their families and women as safe havens and safe havens. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and always open their arms to welcome them back.
3. Women must be hygienic and love cleanliness
Although they are lazy and dirty themselves, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet, and remains indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they believe that their family and their women are their true faces.
4. Give a man the title of head of the family
Women always like to compete with men on the issue of the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence something. In fact, what men demand is just a status. They are so lazy, how can they take on the responsibility of buying groceries and washing dishes voluntarily?
5. Understanding the Loneliness of Men
Psychologically speaking, men are animals who are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men who go out for a drink or sleep at their friends' house every night are not necessarily fond of drinking or getting very close to their friends. Their real reason is that they are afraid of being alone.
Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. So when men lose the whereabouts of their women or they return late or even don't, they become frightened like naked nuns in a busy city.
6. Don't expect men to have the same appearance in their homes
Women often complain that men are different from each other at home and abroad. Why is it that they are always so polite to outsiders and treat me like a tyrant? Why can't he also treat me better? Actually, women don't have to worry about it. Because politeness has always been just a social necessity, and excessive politeness is harmful to the family without any benefits. When a man shows great courtesy towards a woman, it can only indicate that he has lost love for her or done something wrong to her.
7. Don't confront a man when he is angry
The pressure and hardships that men endure in society are something that women cannot experience, and this negative emotion is likely to be brought home by them. So men often find fault with women or throw tantrums at them without reason. When they get angry, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but rather venting their depressed emotions. Men need women's understanding and acceptance the most, and they need women to pay a considerable price of injustice.
8. Men also have jealousy
Men are no less jealous than women, and there are far more men who are prone to life-threatening battles and die under the sword of their rivals in love. If a woman truly loves her man, she should strive to understand the man's mixed self-esteem and vanity mentality, and be cautious in dealing with men's doubts and speculations.
9. Don't speak freely about right and wrong at home
Family shame should not be exposed. The right and wrong at home are inherently inexplicable things, and if combined with external rumors and rumors, a man's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if a man intends to reconcile, it is still difficult to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only choice is to close the door and slowly negotiate. Because men's housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in their internal affairs.
10. Don't compare your own man to others
In the eyes of men, comparing a woman's own man and family to others is a serious betrayal of her own man and family. They cannot kindly understand women's original intentions and desires, and only subjectively believe that women are criticizing them and expressing dissatisfaction. They will also think passionately, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?