Post Date April, 15 2023
Psychological research shows that due to the differences in social roles, when men face the crisis of job insecurity, especially unemployment, the excessive pressure accumulated by their bodies often cannot be released, which can easily lead to loneliness, suspicion, fatigue, insomnia and inattention, and in serious cases, it can also cause symptoms such as neurotic paranoia and mania.
Workplace managers lack friendship
Mr. Liu, 44, is the manager of a large shopping mall. However, he often calls himself "a person without any intimate friends" when he drinks at the table every day.
He said that all dealings with "friends" in business are for the sake of interests, while subordinates are less likely to become confidants. He is never willing to say a few more words with others at ordinary times, "I think to complete my work well, we need to maintain a relationship with others without any emotion." In Mr. Liu's view, the existence of human relations can no longer be tolerated under the competitive environment, There is inevitably a sense of vigilance between people.
"His heart is always closed." Everyone around him commented on him, including his wife.
As a result of years of accumulation, Mr. Liu, who lacked the support of friendship, became irritable, withdrawn and jealous. As a result, a small business setback completely destroyed Mr. Liu's spirit. Later, he locked himself in the room all day long without seeing anyone or doing anything. Finally, he was sent to the mental health center for treatment.
In many ways, men are "weak"
In fact, men are not as strong as we think. Compared with women, men have low immunity, poor durability and weak vitality. According to a survey by the World Health Organization, the life expectancy of men is 6 years shorter than that of women! And even without considering the issue of life span, the quality of life of men is usually lower than that of women.
In some genetic diseases, respiratory diseases, digestive system diseases, diabetes, liver diseases and other aspects, the prevalence rate of men is high, and the incidence rate of heart disease of men is twice that of women. At the same time, since the 1960s, the number of people who died of prostate cancer has also increased by 17%, which is in sharp contrast to the weak health awareness of men in the whole society.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
