Post Date April, 15 2023
Recently, it was reported that a 22-year-old woman had a quarrel with her husband, and in a fit of anger, she stabbed him to death and calmly returned to her mother's house. In the post investigation, neighbors reported that the woman often used violence against her husband, while the man seemed naturally "cowardly", unable to fight back, and silently endured. In this regard, some netizens said that in the marriages of the post-80s generation, women tend to love hot violence while men tend to love cold violence, which has become a new trend.
Men's camp: Women are violent, sometimes cute and sometimes annoying
Interviewee Wu Kai, 27, security
First of all, I'm sorry to say that there is a "River East Lion Roar" in my family right now. Every once in a while, I have to bear her "Nine Yin White Bone Claw". In fact, when you first fall in love, you will find that she is a relatively irritable person. If there is any disagreement, she will immediately serve you with a powder fist. That might be in a period of intense love, but I think she has quite a personality. However, after entering marital life, the once cute little violence has become so repulsive.
Once, we had an argument over an issue with our elderly family. It was already midnight, and she picked up something and threw it at me. Initially, it was soft things such as pillows and dolls. To avoid escalating the conflict, I tried to avoid it. Perhaps feeling frustrated, she grabbed the album and threw it over, with the edge just hitting my forehead without bleeding, but I felt a raw pain. At that moment, she became very detestable in my eyes, "Good men don't fight women," and I fled the scene. The more times I have done this, the more I dislike this "violent" behavior, and the mood to explain to her has disappeared. My marriage is in a state of exhaustion.
Female camp: My husband's cold and violent behavior makes my heart cold
Interviewee Qin Yuanyuan, 26 years old accountant
Two years ago, I got married, my husband was 29 years old, and I started my own consulting company. Everyone says that I have married a good husband, have good financial conditions, and am also a gentleman. To be honest, I was also attracted by his elegant demeanor at the time. I would carefully pick up the dishes for you during meals and open the car door for you when getting into the car. This habit has been maintained in my married life to this day. But it's a person who seems to love his wife very much, but there is a pain that I can't express. That is, whenever we have conflicts, he always gets used to using cold violence to treat us.
He has never used rough language, let alone hands-on skills. Every time there is a conflict, he just stays quietly in the study and allows me to scream and fight outside. Sometimes, I really wish he could scold and fight with me. That way, my resentment still has a vent, but he will always be such a gentleman and so calm.
After two or three days of indifference, he usually finds an excuse to ease our relationship. Although the days seem to have calmed down, my heart becomes colder and colder. Is he willing to bear the humiliation or doesn't care about me at all?
Netizens' heated discussion: Is it necessary for women to engage in sexual violence when fighting against mistresses? I have something to say
Netizens are not afraid of anything: In the current living environment, whether in the workplace or in daily life, there are also higher requirements for women. They need to "be able to fight against lecheros and mistresses". Women's personalities are infused with more powerful factors, which is necessary for society.
Netizen Hedong: Everything is in a dynamic balance of one and the other. In women's slogan of "equality", I always feel that there is a component of "revenge". From half the sky to most of it, it is almost a sky! And many men cannot accept the sudden and powerful counterattack, so conflicts arise... Whether it is cold or hot violence, the harm caused to men and women is the same.
Netizen persistence: To be honest, I have also been beaten by my girlfriend before. It's not a big deal, really. It's said that a survey shows that 40% of women have slapped a man in the face. Women slap you because they love you. When she doesn't argue with you, doesn't argue with you, and sees you as air, you're really miserable. Men often use cold and violent methods to deal with each other, but in fact, this kind of killing power is the greatest. If you still want to continue your married life, when there are conflicts, you still need to "interact". Of course, gentlemen do not use their words, remember this.
