Post Date April, 15 2023
There seems to be some real men who are resolute and calm in the world, but when one of them becomes his lover or husband, the woman is surprised to find that he is actually a timid big boy. If you love a person, you should let him easily take off his disguise and face his true self without being ashamed. Let him know that your love contains everything.
1. I don't need you
Mr. W has been a strong man all his life. According to Mrs. W, he is even tough. Don't even go to see a doctor with your wife; When shopping together, he always walks ahead alone; When his wife went out on business, he looked back at him. He always waved his hand and said impatiently, "You go, I'm fine alone.". After Mrs. W died of illness, Mr. W suddenly became much older. Two months later, he committed suicide.
Psychological interpretation: It is generally believed that women are more vulnerable and more dependent. However, a Japanese psychological research institute confirmed that in Japan, suicidal men are 1.32 times as many as suicidal women, and girls are also much faster than boys to recover after losing their love or spouse. The attitude of men towards their other half is often that I don't need you, and I will live without you. However, in fact, they are trying to hide their deep dependence on each other. "Without her, I feel very sad. It's too humiliating!" The man thought so.
2. Let's stay together
"Does he really love me? But it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way." Xiao Wu was confused recently when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was sticky. My boyfriend wants to be with her for anything. Even if she goes to work overtime on Sunday, he has to wait in the coffee shop downstairs. Xiao Wu felt sweet at first, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Psychological interpretation: Some men will give up "I don't need you" and go to another extreme - they want to be inseparable from you. This kind of camouflage usually appears in the stage of love or marriage. If you think he really loves you so much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's wrong. In fact, such a man has a strong possessive desire in love. He hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of missing but because he is afraid that he doesn't know what you are doing.
3. I'm strong, I don't care if you recognize my strength
In the impression of ECHO, the husband is always confident in bed. After each event, he asked ECHO to express his feelings. ECHO sometimes hesitates to say, because she feels very ordinary. At this time, the gentleman would open his eyes and say, isn't it good? Why do I feel so good every time. Mr. Zhang has always sneered at ECHO's frequent complaints about the insufficient length and frequency of SEX. ECHO believes that the gentleman is too conceited and doesn't care what he says, so he jokes more and more about his sexual ability. The gentleman's attitude is still tough, but ML's enthusiasm is getting smaller and smaller.
Psychological interpretation: Few men in the world are satisfied with their SEX ability, just as no woman is completely satisfied with her appearance. However, even if men have ED, they will never admit that they can't. "The weather is not right", "My wife is not gentle" and other reasons. Let him admit that "I can't do it" is deadly. Although he always pretends not to care about it, women had better understand that in bed, men care about women's feelings, and women's praise is almost all the motivation of his efforts.
4. I am familiar
"Never laugh at your boyfriend as a virgin, even if it's just a joke." LILY will always remember his childish performance when he first got intimate with his boyfriend. After the relationship between the two was upgraded, LILY joked that her husband was a virgin. He blushed and argued with her, saying that LILY was a rookie. A few months later, my husband's body was out of order. The reason was that he wanted to accumulate more experience and didn't want to be looked down upon by LILY.
Psychological interpretation: Another camouflage of men on SEX is that I am familiar. Boys over the age of 20 are ashamed to admit that they are virgins. They even brag about how many girls they have slept with in front of their same-sex friends and have had an N-hour marathon war. Even if he has slept with only one girl before you, he will show that he is confident and knows how the girl feels very well and direct you how to do it. So, at this time, you must not laugh at his childishness, and follow his instructions.
5. My friends are all over the world
"In the rest day, if his mobile phone doesn't ring all day, he will feel that his life is a failure"; "When friends eat together, he likes to answer his mobile phone most. Even if it is not important, he should run to answer it with a dignified look, which makes people feel like they are busy." Lulu hates these little vanity, and asks friends around him. It seems that everyone's husband is so vain to dress himself up as a social expert.
Psychological interpretation: In the era of the CALL machine, there was a joke that circulated for a long time about a male citizen. The CALL machine always didn't ring, so he secretly called himself on the office phone every day. When I heard the beep of the CALL machine, I took it seriously and looked at it. Sometimes I said to others that it was really annoying that someone had an appointment to drink at night. Men like to disguise themselves as social masters, because in their growth, their father's image is usually busy outside, and he comes home late with the smell of alcohol and smoke every day. Making friends widely is a sign of successful men, so they often dress up as sociable to attract the eyes of the opposite sex. At this time, just smile. Why expose him?
6. I'm deep, I have meaning
"Just * * * * with women, what can we say? We should be like Jay Chou? Bull? Don't follow Wang Leehom as a high-quality idol." This is the declaration of the new generation of boys in a forum.
Psychological interpretation: among the younger generation of boys, pretending to be deep may be a more popular disguise. They often dress up as "everyone is drunk and I wake up alone". 24 hours a day, it seems that there are 12 hours of thinking. Even when everyone tells jokes, he doesn't laugh. In the past, boys were described as cool, but now they are described as drag. The heterosexual relationship is extremely good, and they are the killer of girls and teachers. However, if a girl is lucky enough to develop with him, she will find that when he is thinking, his mind is blank; He didn't want to talk, but he was lazy; His so-called thinking about life is nothing but what to eat for dinner today. This is just a growing stage of his life!
7. Be humorous and promise casually
"How about buying a house next year?" "No problem." "Go and get a marriage certificate on November 11." "OK." Wei Wei's boyfriend just blurted out the promise. Even if Wei Wei said that I want the star in the sky, he would not hesitate to say that I will pick it for you. However, if you ask afterwards, hey, didn't you promise? Why don't you do it. He will pretend to be naive and say, "Ah, you are serious. I thought you were joking." Wei Wei thought her boyfriend was hypocritical, but he said, I said this to make you happy.
Psychological interpretation: In the relationship between men and women, men are most afraid of quarreling rather than being dumped. Because they can't cope with women's sharp words and careful thinking. Commitment is a heavy burden that men can't bear. However, women seem to be "commitment maniacs". If they don't promise, they will be put on the hat of "Are you still like a man?". So the man disguised himself as "very humorous" and kept making promises to the woman, but only thinking about how to escape. In the face of such men, if women are not strong enough or not ready to get along with them, it is better to avoid them.
8. Tough men just do not say
Mr. SALINA is a silent man. His theory is that men who love to talk can't be trusted. Even at the wedding ceremony, the master of ceremonies asked him if he could take care of the bride all his life. He answered with silence, which made everyone very embarrassed. SALINA was upset about this, but he didn't care. "I said I love you for ten thousand years, and you believe it? It's really literary!" He said that SALINA is not pragmatic and childish. However, as we spent more and more time together, SALINA found that in fact, he had requirements for responsibilities and obligations in his heart. He did not promise or fulfill his commitments as he had feared at first.
Psychological interpretation: commitment is a man's shackle. Psychologists believe that men can never get rid of their boyish temperament in essence. They need maternal care more than SEX, and their desire for freedom is more than success. "A gentleman's word cannot be recalled" is the social education for them. It must be realized as soon as it is exported, but who can predict the variables. So they would rather die than say. In a man's life, there may only be one or two solemn promises, which are enough for them. "If I can do it, why must I promise you?" In fact, another voice in my heart said, "What if I can't do it?". Compared with the men who pretend to be humorous, the men who pretend to be tough men are more sensitive and vulnerable and have a stronger sense of responsibility. Therefore, women who want to have a real life are most suitable for living with them. I have to admit that they are not as attractive to women as men who pretend to be humorous.
9. Never admit mistakes
"He is so strange. Usually, when we joke together, he always says that I am wrong when there is no major problem. When we really do something wrong, our mouth is as hard as iron. No matter how hard you try, he will not admit it. Even when we can't argue, we have to play tricks and say what is wrong with me." CANDY said this with a disgusted expression. Indeed, she did not like the unreasonable attitude of Mr. "If he admitted his mistake, I wouldn't think he was superior to him. On the contrary, he never admitted his mistake. I would think he was too much."
Psychological interpretation: men do feel that once they admit mistakes, they will be inferior. Especially in front of the other half. They are very afraid of lowering their family status because of doing something wrong. Because men have little confidence in their family status. "Does the wife love me because of worship" and "in the eyes of children, I am not a successful father" are the questions that have always troubled them. The fear of the loss of authority makes men like to act as die-hards who never make mistakes at home or in social activities. This is really maddening, but women need not be afraid, because they have another explanation in their hearts: "I will correct it later, why must I say it"
