Sexual Health
The main content of child sex education: several key points that should be clarified in child sex education
Sex is related to the formation of human life, and everyone is a product of sex. A person's attitude and attitudes towards sex may affect their quality of life, marital quality, and even life quality throughout their lifetime. The impact and physical harm caused by sexual behavior on people are easy to treat, but psychological harm is difficult to eliminate. Perhaps it will affect a child's love life. Therefore, children need to have a correct understanding of sex from an early age, understand sexual science knowledge appropriately, protect themselves, and adults should provide sexual health education to children. It can help them establish correct sexual attitudes and positive attitudes. This is undoubtedly very helpful for their sexual activities in the later stages of adulthood, whether it is rational love, marriage, or having children.
Several key points that should be clarified in children's sex education
1. Admitting that sex is not a dirty thing.
If you always emphasize the viewpoint of 'sex is not good' to your child, then the child in the rebellious period will only want to argue against you more.
2. Don't underestimate the education of boys.
Talking about sex to girls is actually very simple. This is because when your child's menstrual cycle begins, you can tell her about this topic when you are afraid or anxious. If the child is a boy and discovers symptoms such as dream emission, they can talk to him. According to the current situation, education for boys is insufficient because according to surveys, girls are more aware of their bodies and sexual impulses than boys.
3. Define sex as the process of love.
Explaining how sex begins - smiling, hugging, kissing, touching, sexual intercourse.
4. Boys and girls need to have different ways of education.
You must teach your daughter that when a boyfriend makes such a request, she must learn to say 'no' in person. It is precisely because of insufficient education that some girls only look elsewhere and remain unknown, which can send wrong messages to boys and even lead to pregnancy. In addition, you should teach your son to guess the danger, as he may not have received verbal recognition and eventually be accused of rape.
5. Listen to children.
Each era has its own impressions and values. Think about how you treated sex in the 1960s and 1970s. If you have a better understanding of children's attitudes, the clearer you will be about how to educate them.