The 'hidden rules' are like invisible hands to marriage, which can make you happy for a lifetime or make your long-term marriage collapse instantly. While most women regard marriage as a lifelong career, the happiness of marriage can not be achieved once and for all with a marriage certificate. Emotional experts have recommended several hidden rules in marriage based on this situation. Let's take a look together:
1. Your efforts and rewards may not necessarily be proportional
The moment a woman and a man establish a legal marriage, it is already determined that you begin to abide by the hidden rules of marriage. In marriage, dedication is an essential part. Since it is a willingly given effort, do not force the amount of return. But you must firmly believe that there is no such thing as a free lunch.
The rewards that marriage brings to you will be returned to you in other ways, such as giving up your career and choosing to spend time at home with your husband and children. The best reward is for your husband to have a smooth career and a healthy body and mind, and for your child to have a successful academic career and a healthy body. Or maybe you haven't switched to the cervical spondylosis of white-collar workers, etc. Life will not treat you unfairly, but the ways of return are different.
2. Accept the other person's shortcomings
After marriage, two people who spend their days together gradually lose their previous attractiveness. The strengths of the other person you admired during the romantic period have now been blurred by the trivialities of life. In this situation, the shortcomings of the other person will become clearer.
This is precisely human nature: people are difficult to satisfy. This way, you will gradually become a resentful woman, and over time, your marriage will gradually become a tragedy.
3. Understanding appropriate compromises in marriage
The combination of two people not only means that you have accepted each other's strengths, but also requires you to be tolerant of their weaknesses. After all, the combination of advantages and power shortage has built a complete him.
Two people in a marriage inevitably encounter bumps and turns. If both individuals have strong personalities and are not good at compromise, they can make it through once or twice. Over time, with more occurrences, this marriage is destined to become a tragedy.
4. Harmonious sexual life for couples is crucial
We will find that in most families where couples have a harmonious sexual life, their lives are also relatively harmonious. Of course, in order for a marriage to last for a long time, it not only relies on sexual activity itself, but also pays attention to spiritual communication after sexual intercourse. In other words, perfect sexual life is a combination of mind and body, not only a physical orgasm, but also a focus on spiritual communication after sexual intercourse.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)