Post Date April, 15 2023
The American magazine Women's Health published an article by male columnist Steven? Dorti's article discusses the eight most important "firsts" in a man's life and explains how these experiences influence his attitudes towards relationships and marriage. Life Times reporters also interviewed some American citizens and found that everyone unanimously agreed that understanding these important moments can help promote gender relations.
The first kiss. Steven stated that the "first kiss" in male memory does not specifically refer to the first kiss, but rather the most beautiful kiss, which determines future emotional development.
Steven was deeply infatuated with an Irish girl until he realized after his first kiss that she and he didn't call each other. The passionate kiss with his second girlfriend Susanna activated all his sensory cells. Later, Susanna became his wife, and that thrilling feeling persisted for 40 years.
The first trip. Some people say that if a man and a woman cannot travel happily together, they cannot become a couple; If a couple is unhappy while traveling, their relationship will not last long. It can be seen how important the feeling of traveling is for love and marriage. Steven also believes that whether traveling long or short distances, or even simply dining out, can reveal the flaws in both parties' personalities. A lawyer told a reporter from Life Times that travel is the best way to get to know each other, and his wife is the woman who met and had the most pleasant time together during a trip.
The first time I said 'I love you'. This sentence should come from the bottom of my heart, it is a milestone in emotional life, indicating that "this relationship really is that kind of thing". But saying 'I love you' too early may seem hasty; Saying too much can also make the other person annoyed, so both men and women should cherish the opportunity to show their love.
Meeting her friend for the first time. Birds of a feather flock together "is also a way for Americans to make friends. Most men hope to meet their girlfriend's friends, and if one of them likes to lie or has bad behavior, they will most decisively break up with their girlfriend.
But some people also refute this point. Software engineer Tom said that no one is perfect, so he doesn't care much about what kind of friends his girlfriend has and doesn't want it to affect their relationship.
Give her the wardrobe for the first time. Before getting married, Americans often cohabit for a period of time to determine whether their personalities are compatible.
Steven believes that when a man asks his girlfriend to put clothes in his wardrobe, it is an important implication: I am serious about this relationship. Because in the eyes of men, a neat wardrobe represents a sense of purpose.
For the first time, boldly say 'I do'. Many American men are particularly nervous when getting married, and they are even afraid of making mistakes when saying 'I do', thinking that it would be regrettable for a lifetime.
When Steven got married, he was very afraid that he would be dry mouthed and speechless, making the bride mistake him for not being willing. So a few days before marriage, he kept practicing this sentence in front of the mirror. As soon as he spoke that day, the three words' I would 'were crisp and loud.
Being a father for the first time. There is no more exciting moment in a man's life than being a father for the first time, and many men even cry for joy. In the interview, all men stated that life is perfect only when they become fathers. The moment I see a child, I realize the value of life
Give her the wardrobe for the first time. Before getting married, Americans often cohabit for a period of time to determine whether their personalities are compatible.
Steven believes that when a man asks his girlfriend to put clothes in his wardrobe, it is an important implication: I am serious about this relationship. Because in the eyes of men, a neat wardrobe represents a sense of purpose.
For the first time, boldly say 'I do'. Many American men are particularly nervous when getting married, and they are even afraid of making mistakes when saying 'I do', thinking that it would be regrettable for a lifetime.
When Steven got married, he was very afraid that he would be dry mouthed and speechless, making the bride mistake him for not being willing. So a few days before marriage, he kept practicing this sentence in front of the mirror. As soon as he spoke that day, the three words' I would 'were crisp and loud.
Being a father for the first time. There is no more exciting moment in a man's life than being a father for the first time, and many men even cry for joy. In the interview, all men stated that life is perfect only when they become fathers. The moment I see a child, I realize the value of life
