The best investment in a man's life is not in housing, not in gold, not in stocks, but in a right woman.
"What kind of woman makes what kind of man? Even Buffett said that the best investment in his life is choosing the right wife.". So, if you don't meet a good woman, prepare your own horse whip and whip yourself.
A man's life, whether he stands tall or walks far, depends on whether he can meet a good woman, who may be a girlfriend, a wife, a confidant, or a lover who will never be separated in his lifetime! Either way, the most important thing is to have your hearts together!
Feuerbach said, "Love is the achievement of a person."! For a man, the key to achieving a certain level of cultivation is to have a virtuous, gentle, and considerate woman around him, and to avoid "being unkind to others.".
Because good men are created with the help, attention, appreciation, and pruning of good women. Without a good woman, where can a good man come from?
[Five Kinds of Good Women Make Future Good Men]
1: An intellectual woman who is pure and has some life experience.
Like all mature women, she has experienced simplicity, naivety, confusion, confusion, dreams, and the process of eclosion in her teenage years. Laughed and cried; Having been happy and suffering; Love, but also lost. It is precisely because of such experience and experience that she has more connotation, purity, gentleness, intellectuality, tolerance, wisdom, self-confidence, and steadiness than a woman who is superficial, feisty, shallow, ignorant, and like a butterfly.
Such a woman has a wide range of knowledge, a relatively broad vision, and can "embrace everything" and "embrace all rivers". She prefers and is loyal to her true inner feelings, and will not easily lose herself in the midst of extravagance and extravagance. She knows better how to distinguish between falsehood and truth, and how to discern gold with a wise eye.
2: A woman of poise and taste.
Spiritual pursuit is higher than material pursuit, and it is not necessary to break through thousands of books in reading. However, it has thoughts and taste, and is far from vulgar, shallow, and frivolous temperament. It attaches great importance to internal communication and feelings, and has an aesthetic personality and principles different from those of ordinary people. She knows better that "little girls love money and take it wisely.".
The man in her eyes may not necessarily be successful, but he must have potential. Because she knows it's not easy for men to fight alone in this world. Therefore, she can accept your efforts, struggles, and even failures with an inclusive perspective
3: A calm, non greedy woman.
Meeting such a woman is a blessing for all men in the world. A woman who is not greedy has a peaceful and contented mind, and she knows that a soft heart is more important than heavy material possessions. Today, this is a rare and very valuable quality. Because she is indifferent to her ambition and is not mercenary, she can cope with various challenges and temptations in life. She will not easily forget righteousness and wealth, nor will she push her lover into trouble. She is proud of you when she has achieved something, and she supports and encourages you when she is frustrated.
If you are a real man like husband, don't let her down. You can be ugly or poor, but you just can't let her down, because hope means everything to a peaceful, non greedy woman!
4: A sincere and open-minded woman.
While constantly comprehending life, practicing, pruning, and improving yourself, we are also constantly pruning, appreciating, and improving you. At the same time, it can also convey true feelings, open-mindedness, and happiness to you. She is not harsh, sensible, considerate, and picky. In the face of you, although she also has nagging times, it is also a kind of "love you in my heart difficult to open" anger that makes her dissatisfied because of your bad behavior. She can give you confidence, courage, courage, and strength. She doesn't expect you to stand up to heaven and earth, but she needs to do something and not do something. More often, she hopes you can live happily, happily, candidly, honestly, and with dignity, because her eyes can hold everything you have.
5: A virtuous and considerate woman.
With her, you will have a refreshing and pleasant feeling like a spring breeze. In front of her, you are relaxed, happy, authentic, and childish. You don't have to deliberately disguise a heroic and overwhelming appearance. Your fatigue, heaviness, annoyance, frustration, regret, impetuosity, pressure, and toil are all included in her virtuous and virtuous package by her understanding. She is both water and can dissolve you; It is also fire that can burn you, and its charm lies in: the most understanding of your tenderness!
If you have such a good woman around you, you must take good advantage of it! Be sure to cherish it! Be sure to treat her well! There must be too many men who envy you for having such good luck!