Post Date April, 15 2023
After the child enters puberty, due to the physical development and the continuous improvement of sexual psychology, the child begins to tend to attract the opposite sex, resulting in related sexual physiological and psychological problems. However, due to the confinement of social, moral and other concepts, few people talk about the sexual behavior between the same sex, so the sexual problems between the same sex are intentionally or unintentionally ignored by people.
Adolescence is the most vulnerable stage of children's feelings and thoughts, and their sexual psychology and moral concepts are not fully established. At this stage, children are curious, curious and receptive, but they lack the ability to judge some behaviors and phenomena in society, and are full of fantasy and desire. In this period, children want to get in touch with their peers who can share their secrets. In addition, society, parents, teachers and students all agree with the same sex and suppress the opposite sex, which shows that it is reasonable and legal to be with the same sex and not be misunderstood and noticed. However, the personalized development of modern society and some concepts of sexual freedom have also made it fashionable for these rebellious children to break through the shackles and fight for freedom, which has a certain impact on children, so teenagers are more likely to have homosexual tendencies.
It is difficult for homosexuals to get a normal life
In fact, homosexuality is a social phenomenon that any person, any nation, any society, or any era escapes from. Homosexuality has the most common sexual deviation phenomenon widely distributed in both time and space in human history. In addition, people's recognition of this will vary greatly, even in opposition, due to different times and different levels of civilization. Due to the progress of society and the deepening of research, people's understanding of homosexuality is also deepening. In his book "Sexual Psychology", psychologist Grace pointed out that homosexuality is not a crime but a disease, and agreed that homosexuality is one of the normal sexual tendencies of human beings that have existed since ancient times.
However, we can't deny that the pressure from the society causes homosexuals to be subject to numerous resistance and exclusion, whether in the pursuit of sex or in the real life of interpersonal communication, career development and public image. Many homosexuals live in the shadow of depression and hesitation for a long time, so getting rid of the status quo and becoming heterosexual is the most expected way.
In real life, homosexuals dare not express their love, and some homosexuals will think that they are dirty and psychopathic, and that they are immoral and abnormal, while the strong pressure from society makes them afraid of exclusion and contempt, and bear psychological pressure and spiritual pain.
In marriage life, homosexuals often have to play the role of the opposite sex. In the case of having to marry, it will eventually bring pain to the family and partners. This double-sided life also brings them loneliness, anxiety and shame, and even the idea of suicide.
Pay close attention to adolescent sex education
In view of the painful experience of homosexuality, parents must pay attention to the education of their children in adolescence. Pay attention to children's growing worries and needs. Take the initiative to lift the ideological shackles, don't talk about "sex" color change, have a scientific attitude and correct teaching methods for sexual knowledge and psychology, face up to the sexual education and psychology of adolescent children, and can't interfere with the normal spiritual life of children because of fear of puppy love. Parents can also work with teachers to carry out relevant sex education for children of different ages and different psychological characteristics, encourage and guide the normal communication between teenagers of the opposite sex, do not regard sex as a monster, but treat gender issues objectively and impartially with a normal attitude, educate and guide children to establish healthy sexual concepts, master complete and scientific sexual knowledge, cultivate self-respect and self-love personality, and create a self-reliant and self-reliant life,
When the head of the family finds that the child has homosexual tendencies and abnormal emotional and living conditions, he/she should be treated calmly. Don't be blind, nervous and angry, and avoid poor communication with the child. Parents can communicate with their children when they are in a good mood. Don't make comments, criticisms or suggestions by yourself, and try to help them analyze the possible adverse consequences of this behavior from the perspective of children. If the child is obstinate and extreme, the parents need not argue with the child, and calmly tell the child that they are willing to help him at any time. If necessary, the parents can also turn to the psychologist and psychological counseling agency.
