Teenager sex education should start with understanding the psychology of sexual curiosity and be taken seriously

If children do not use the correct methods to obtain information, they can only obtain the wrong information through improper methods and can only misunderstand the children. It is best for schools and parents to generously tell them about science, understand it, and completely eliminate this sense of mystery. Some people believe that it may burn oil on fire. In fact, this is not the case. It can only equip children with scientific knowledge to prevent the erosion of unhealthy thoughts and behaviors. Because it not only includes education, but also many contents. In fact, it is an education of love. It will teach children what love is, how to love, how to love, how to be a person, how to handle interpersonal relationships, how to protect oneself, and how to respect others. Its moral education implies that only scientific education can better use sexual moral standards to restrain oneself in education.

The age at which puberty begins is constantly advancing, with an average of 1 year earlier every 30 years, and now an average of 13 years earlier, starting 10-11 years earlier. There are many reasons for early puberty, including climate warming, the improvement of living standards and nutritional status, and the neutral information explosion of the mass media, which has even reached the point of no holes. However, due to the threat of population explosion, the urgent demand for learning among teenagers, and the colorful entertainment activities of modern life, people generally postpone the age of marriage, and the time from sexual and physiological maturity to marriage has increased, from small to 10 years, from many to more than a decade. How to deal with sexual curiosity that germinates after sexual physiological maturity? This is the most realistic problem that society, parents, and children must face.

With the arrival of sexual physiological maturity, teenagers' sexual consciousness begins to awaken and germinate, with surprises and interests, as mentioned above. The isolation of adults and society has caused their resistance. There is no language in textbooks, and of course, there are many low-level interests, even manual copying and other things that come to visit and participate in. Scientific knowledge should be like prophylactic injections, which can enhance immunity and resistance, but unfortunately, such prophylactic injections are still rare.

2. Like to be close to the opposite sex, Goethe said: Which boy doesn't like it, which girl doesn't cherish spring. Under the influence of sex hormones, it is reasonable for teenagers to develop a desire or admiration for the opposite sex, which is a manifestation of their sexual psychological development. Unfortunately, their sexual psychology is much more mature than their sexual physiology, and there are significant differences between the two. This has led to their inability to properly handle the psychological changes at this stage. Some people like to say that they are the easiest to have early love, and most middle school students have early love. In fact, their psychological state at this time is not love, but limited to ordinary longing and love, and has nothing to do with love. For example, the star chasing image of young girls reflects this mood. A star is very handsome and soon becomes the prince charming of countless young girls, with almost no emotional input. They only pursue some form and external expression. If there is any emotional investment, they will wither and be afraid of others peeping into their spiritual world. They will never shout 'I love you' like in a concert.

At this point, there is an impulse to come into contact with the opposite sex, and there is a very unstable characteristic. Suddenly, the blood boils, and I want to throw myself into the other person's arms. Suddenly, I lose my temper and swear that I will never see him again. Therefore, at this point, it is easy to develop excessive impulses, rational impulses, inability to control one's emotions and behavior, and doing foolish things is inevitable. They are not good at controlling emotions, cannot constrain themselves with ethics and morality, impulsively wear colored glasses, cannot calmly analyze people and things, and often make mistakes. Therefore, in situations of young age, insufficient social experience, and immature psychology, one should never discuss emotional matters. At this point, one must not enter the two worlds of Qing Qing and me, and can only maintain extensive communication and normal friendship with the opposite sex.