Become your ideal object
If someone asks you what you want from your partner, you may be able to list a long list of descriptions. But in Leeds' view, a wonderful marriage should begin with changing yourself. "If you want to satisfy the other party, you must first change yourself and try to become the 'perfect image' in your heart." Lilo said, "I always think about the difference between my behavior and the best lover in my heart. Once you can persuade yourself to improve continuously, it is easy to see the differences between the two."
Some happiness suggestions for newlyweds
After a quarrel, count before speaking
Lilo said that whenever she was angry, she would say to her husband, "Don't talk to me first, let me count to 100." Counting can prevent people's anger from growing, which also avoids further quarrels.
Be brave enough to say what you want
If something makes you feel unhappy, the best solution is to speak out. Of course, the same words have different expressions and emotions. "We never go out to eat" and "I want to go out to eat" have different effects. The former implies complaints, while the latter expresses their wishes. Gerry believes that when expressing a request, we should use a positive tone and try to start with "I hope" and "can I". If you can add another "dear", the positive effect will be doubled.