Post Date May, 20 2023
The situation of frigidity in our daily life, especially for female friends, is more common due to various reasons, and we must pay attention to its occurrence.
Psychological reasons for female frigidity
1. Due to factors such as improper childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious influence, or adult demonstration, prejudice towards sexual life is formed, such as believing that sexual intercourse is a dirty, promiscuous behavior, a sin, a pleasure for men, a suffering for women, and feelings of disgust, disgust, and fear towards sexual life.
2. Lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual intercourse, fear of pain, and lack of understanding of the psychological differences between men and women. On the night of their wedding, men act rudely and quickly reach orgasm and ejaculate, but women do not experience pleasure and instead feel uncomfortable and painful, resulting in vaginal spasms. In the long run, sexual life is becoming increasingly cold.
3. Worries, fears, and unreliable contraceptive measures about pregnancy can suppress normal sexual satisfaction and lead to sexual apathy.
4. Poor living conditions, interference with sexual life, unpleasant mood, and lack of concentration are difficult to cause sexual excitement.
5. The relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, with mutual distrust, suspicion, or aversion, and cannot generate sexual excitement.
6. Women have severe masturbation habits, lack of pleasure during sexual intercourse after marriage, and men have dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, making it difficult for women to satisfy their sexual needs.
Reasons for women's apathy
1. Psychological impact: Due to being attacked by male violence, such women should be more concerned and cared for. Even if she has contrasting personalities with others, we should not complain about her. As a result, she has suffered enough injuries and we cannot demand anything from her.
2. Incorrect sexual beliefs: For some women, the likelihood of experiencing sexual apathy in adulthood is high. For example, living in a very traditional family with strict elder education, sex is wrong, good women should not enjoy sex, and having sexual relations with men is a very shameful thing. A woman has accepted this idea since childhood, and as she grows up with normal sexual desire, she will naturally strive to suppress it. Over time, she will naturally become sexually indifferent.
3. Inadequate sexual skills: Women use water for pain, which I believe everyone knows. However, I often know that it is not good to do it well, and as men, it is necessary to improve. Otherwise, there won't be more women interested in you in this society. In many cases, we must consider women's bodies and emotions. If we only want to satisfy our desires without caring about the feelings of our loved ones, then in the near future, you may lose more happiness. There is equality between people. We cannot destroy all our future happiness just because of our temporary desires.
