Post Date April, 15 2023
Some people say that cohabitation is equivalent to trial marriage. Generally, the divorce rate of men and women who cohabit in advance is relatively high. In fact, this is not absolute. Although it is said that two people will encounter many problems, as long as properly handled, two people can still safely live their whole life. Next, the editor will introduce several necessary conditions for men and women to cohabit:
Coordinate work and rest
If you like to sleep late on the day off, he prefers to get up early and clean up the house, and he still has to fight you. The fight is inevitable. Only parents can tolerate the friction caused by the difference in the time of getting up; On the other hand, if the other party is indecisive and always unable to decide what to do together on the weekend, or on the contrary, always decides roughly what to do, it will cause unhappiness. But this is easier to solve. Both parties can make a rule, for example, Saturday is the female birthday, Sunday is the male birthday, and girls' day will take precedence over girls, and everything is subject to girls. vice versa.
Questions about children
Whether the discussion about children can reach a consensus. Before marriage, be sure to discuss this topic deeply and repeatedly, so as to know whether the other party's ideas are consistent with their own general direction. For example, whether one wants children or not; One hopes for cramming education, the other hopes to develop personality and so on.
Handle the problems of elders
If his parents still treat him as a child, I hope you can coax him like him, and he also enjoys the treatment of being a son, but your motherhood is not so enough, which will cause a lot of friction in the future; If both parents don't get along well, it is difficult to achieve even superficial harmony, which will also become a problem; If you don't like his parents, or he doesn't like your parents, it will also become a hidden danger of future happiness.
