Should couples say sweet words during sex? These words are very helpful in sexual life

What should couples say when having sex? In a perfect sexual encounter, appropriate sexual language can add points to your intimate relationship. So what should couples say when having sex? Below is an introduction for you.

1、 What should couples say when having sex

The secret words on the bed after love can most truly reflect her true nature and inner feelings. The same goes for men. Generally speaking, men do not like to express themselves, except for the excessive sweet talk when pursuing you, which is like selling out of season. However, that is an extraordinary period, and that is another matter. Once your relationship stabilizes, he quickly becomes stingy and dull, and it will be difficult to hear his affectionate words again. However, don't think he no longer loves you. Just listen to his passionate words and you'll know.

A complete and high-quality sexual experience should be one in which the foreplay, climax, and afterplay are completed in one go and the climax fluctuates. At the same time, not only physical pleasure, but also the interaction between two people is the lingering love. For example, men prefer to watch women's facial expressions during orgasm and prefer to listen to women's euphemistic and passionate phrases.

1. Calling your name is my pleasure

The most common, simple and sincere way is to shout the other person's name, usually a nickname. After all, women are still emotional animals, and pure sexual pleasure always feels imperfect. Therefore, at the moment when they are about to enter the blissful world, they often shout out the names of their loved ones, as if saying, 'In my happiest moments, you will definitely be with me!'!

2. High tide moment: Do you love me or not

Don't look at men with a tough and tough appearance on the surface, in fact, they sometimes treat love so fragile that you can't believe it. The cold and majestic appearance is actually a disguise for the inner lack of confidence. Especially for some wealthy and successful men, they often find it difficult to find confidence in love.

On the one hand, they are always unsure deep down whether you love him or his wallet. On the other hand, men are good at handling rational and logical issues, while emotions are extremely illogical. So, it's common for many successful men to have strong confidence on weekdays, but during that passionate climax, they repeatedly ask if you love me? Do you love me?

3. After Passion: How am I doing

Whether a man is considerate and gentle really doesn't know until he gets into bed. But most men with some education and education know how to cherish fragrance and jade. Even the roughest men have a gentlemanly demeanor. After all, after wandering the Jianghu for many years, there is still some cultivation.

However, whether you are truly gentle and gentlemanly ultimately requires going to bed to test, because humility and grace in life, such as helping you open the door and chair, have become subconscious habitual actions. And after going to bed, I can still promote the spirit of service, and be meticulous, especially during orgasms. I will ask you, such as how am I? The man, then he really loves you very much.

2、 Three types of 'sexual language' are more stimulating

1. Vague Sexual Language

Language communication is an important form of sexual communication. When people speak, the vibrations in their voices express emotions and can stimulate our imagination. Language not only includes text, but also timbre, tone, and volume. Using language to convey or respond to sexual demands can elevate general emotional communication to rational understanding.

Human love is different from sexual love in the animal kingdom, and its important foundation is emotional communication through language communication. Due to the influence of cultural level and beliefs, the use of language in sexual communication often has the characteristic of ambiguity.

2. A passionate moan

The moans made by men and women during sexual excitement and orgasm are also quite stimulating, especially for men. A 28 year old man said, "When I have sex with my wife, the more she calls me, the more excited I get because her calls make me feel like I've done something to make her happy

Another 30 year old man confessed, "The wife's deep moans during orgasm are extremely tempting and provocative." It can be said that in foreplay, the man's language communication is crucial for the woman's sexual excitement, while during intimacy, the woman's voice plays an aphrodisiac role in the man's sexual excitement.

The moans women make during sexual intercourse are different, but their moaning language has similarities, such as "fast", "can't stand it anymore", "don't stop!", etc. They will naturally blurt out without learning, and can be called the common language of women in the world.

3. Respiratory rate increases

The reason why women can moan during sexual excitement is because their breathing and heart rate significantly increase, central nervous system is excited, leading to an increase in blood pressure and aerobic metabolism. At this moment, the number of breaths can reach 40 times/minute, the heart rate increases to 120 times/minute, and some can reach 150 times/minute to 160 times/minute. Due to a decrease in oxygen content in the blood, women may experience a mild state of hypoxia, accelerated respiratory disorders, and naturally emit the characteristic muffled sounds of orgasm.

At the same time, due to the increase of "excitatory substances" in the female brain (which are still very limited in people's understanding to this day), it can relieve the inhibitory effect of the brain and cause women to make calls that are unimaginable to themselves (referred to as "bed calls" in sexology).