Sex is the thermometer of emotions. When communication is poor, leading to misunderstandings, speculations, resentment, and aggressive behavior, the relationship between partners becomes frosty. Recently, German newspaper Bild, in collaboration with the Institute of Sexology at the University of Hamburg, invited 200 men to ask their top 10 questions in the order of before, during, and after sex, and asked their partners to answer truthfully. This question and answer finally allowed experts to understand the root causes of sexual barriers between couples.
1. Men: Do women prefer to have sex with men who are sexually aggressive?
Women: We know that such men only appear in novels. In fact, we prefer men who are gentle, kind, responsible, and give people a sense of security and dependence. They are truly sexy.
2. Men: For women, is the longer the caress, the better?
Women: Compared to men, female sexual arousal does take longer. But this is not innate, it can be reshaped, and we also look forward to change. In fact, if men delay entering the 'theme', it will make us feel irritable.
3. Men: Will women's pleasure be affected when men wear condoms?
Women: Being separated by a layer of rubber film does not increase or decrease a woman's pleasure. We hope that men wear condoms for sexual intercourse, mainly for safety reasons. If sex requires adventure, then there is absolutely no happiness to speak of.
4. Men: How do women view non-traditional sexual practices?
Women: Women also need to try new ways, but this sexual position must be healthy, safe, and can make both parties happier. We need our partner to obtain our consent in advance!