The average man usually knows nothing about these psychological games of women. But because you have to enter the game sooner or later, you'd better understand these games. Let's take a look at what games women usually play and what are their minds thinking in three different periods - acquaintance, dating and love?
Psychological game between men and women
Acquaintance stage
Game 1: She dresses sexy and acts a little crazy.
What is she thinking: in this case, there is no logic at all. She also knew that according to the nature of men, they would certainly stare at her. Then she will punish them severely for their normal and natural behavior. Therefore, men should not take their eyes away when they see a woman in sexy clothes, which may cause you to lose great opportunities.
Game 2: In addition to her enthusiasm, she also sells amorous feelings. Even though she has no intention of dating or further development with the man in front of her, she still makes some suggestive actions that are quite provocative.
What she is thinking: She wants to attract your attention to make sure she is still attractive to men.
Game 3: Although she has no intention of dating you, she will still leave her phone number or your phone number, but will never call you.
What she is thinking: this is another bid for power. She just wants to assure herself that she can control men with her unique feminine charm.
Game 4: Even though she is happy to date you, she still chooses to refuse your appointment or not return your phone call.
What she is thinking: sometimes it is just a game of chasing gender dominance, and sometimes it shows that she wants you to pursue her and prove to her how much you love her. If you take the bait, she will know that she has completely mastered the control, and you will always hear her whip crackling.
Appointment stage
Game 1: At the last moment of the date, she suddenly cancelled the appointment, or didn't show up at all, and didn't even apologize afterwards.
What she is thinking: she realizes that the pursued party will take control of the relationship, and she should make sure that you follow her from the beginning. Many women play this game because they want to see how deep this man is.
Game 2: She was late for the appointment, or when you went downstairs to meet her, she was not ready. Moreover, such cases are not uncommon.
What she is thinking: she wants to find out how high your tolerance is. She wants to be the dominant party, confirm that you are passionately pursuing her, and let you not know how she thinks of you. If she asks you to wait, she sends a clear signal that she thinks her time is more valuable than yours.
Game 3: When dating, she always chooses the most expensive restaurant, the most expensive bar, and the most popular movie. Of course, she hopes you can pay all the bills quickly.
What she is thinking: She realizes that you also know that if you are not willing to pay the bill, you will have no chance to further develop with her. Worse, she may also confess that she doesn't want to have any intimate relationship with you at all, and then continue to use your money without scruples. At this time, if you have made it clear that you want to go further with her, congratulations, your credit card will soon smoke.
Game 4: She is intimate with other men in front of you.
What she is thinking: When she does this, she is testing how much you like her. At the same time, she also needs to prove to you that she is a very attractive person. There are still a lot of people waiting for her. If you don't want to eat ginkgo, you'd better follow your advice.
Game 5: She is very fickle. She will say this and then that. For example, she will tell you that it doesn't matter where you go or what you do, and then when you make a decision, she will scowl all night and complain that you have made the "wrong" choice.
What she is thinking: she just wants to be the person who can pick your mistakes, and has no other meaning. Of course, it's impossible for you to know what the "right" choice is?
Love stage
Game 1: She acts arbitrarily, only cares about her own happiness, and completely ignores your feelings.
What she is thinking: she is testing how "manly" you are and how much dominant space she has. At the same time, she is also preparing "ammunition" for the inevitable quarrel in the future, in case you will be mad and furious one day.
Game 2: She wants you to understand her thoughts, including her sexual desire, her favorite restaurant, what she encounters in the day, and so on.
What she is thinking: she wants to know that you understand her and can listen to her thoughts. You should be able to guess exactly what she is thinking, what she needs and how she wants to get it without her opening her mouth. Usually, if you "fail", she will punish you, often sexually.
Game 3: She was furious and showed an unhappy look, like a lion roaring.
What she is thinking: she wants to know how much temper you can bear with her.
Game 4: She is immersed in the contradictory ideological struggle. On the one hand, she wants a partner who has masculinity and can make decisions. At the same time, she also wants him to be a tasteful "urban beauty man" who likes to watch romantic comedies.
What she is thinking: She tells you that she wants you to show more emotion, but when you do this, she will say you are "weak". This is another proof that she wants to win the upper hand in the relationship. This makes you feel that if you are not her "Mr. Right", it will be her who proposes to break up.
Game 5: After she makes you feel that it is difficult to control yourself, she suddenly stops everything, or limits the scale of intimacy between you.
What she is thinking: This is a good example to prove that she has the ability to control the relationship between you in terms of sex. She may keep playing this game, hoping to get more material things from you.