As a woman, it is very important to know her other half. Understanding men's psychology and communicating with them is an important part of women's life. Learn about men by understanding their psychology, and choose the best person for yourself, so that you can live a happy life for the rest of your life. If you are wrong, you will only suffer in the future. Men and women are very different. We should understand them in a new way. Now let's introduce how to understand men's psychology.
From the above two principles, understanding the male psychology can be more accurate and objective. Specifically, there are several methods:
Conversational method
Understanding men through conversation is one of the most important ways. It should be noted that there should be no inappropriate atmosphere and environment in the conversation, and a natural, pleasant, relaxed and comfortable conversation atmosphere should be created. It is not necessary to blindly ask any key questions. You can talk about unimportant topics as you like. In the conversation, you can grasp the man's psychology through his opinions and attitudes on various issues. We should be good at distinguishing between the words of the other party that are real and can reflect personality, and those that are casual and meaningless. Conversation is an art. To master skills, you need to carefully ponder and experience in life.
Challenge
The secret of provocation lies in its rebellious psychology. The so-called rebellious psychology refers to that under certain specific conditions, some people's words and actions are contrary to the subjective wishes of the parties, resulting in a reverse reaction contrary to the normal nature. For example, some people are not attractive at first, but they will become popular once they are hyped. For example, some literary and artistic works are not attractive at first, but once they are reviewed, they will attract great attention and interest.
The more taboo something is, the more people are eager to understand it and get it. In the process of communication, some young people show great interest in the people who are cold-eyed and cold-eyed while disdaining the objects they are passionate about. This is the function of rebellious psychology. Its psychological basis is curiosity and thirst for knowledge. Curiosity is the psychological motivation of thirst for knowledge. When something is prohibited, it is most likely to arouse people's curiosity and thirst for knowledge. Especially when it is only prohibited without any explanation, it is more likely to arouse people's suspicion, speculation and speculation, so as to get to the bottom of the matter.
It is often effective to use this phenomenon to understand men. For example, if you say in front of others that he can't do something and that you are disappointed with him, he will immediately try to do it and let you know that you are wrong about him. Through this reaction, you can observe his psychological characteristics and uniqueness in his personality.
Observation method
The observation method refers to the investigation of a man's various performances, reception, and other aspects in a specific environment to obtain a comprehensive impression, and then through their own analysis and processing, finally grasp their psychological characteristics. The observation method can be divided into horizontal observation and vertical observation. The former refers to the attitude, manner, style, advantages and disadvantages, habits of men when they interact with various people and encounter various things; The latter said that it is difficult to understand a person through one or two observations. The so-called "Lu Yao knows the horse power, and sees the heart of the people over time". It takes several times and months of continuous observation to grasp the object dynamically and form a complete impression.
survey method
What is said above is the result that can only be achieved by the parties' positive contact. The investigation method is not rigid. It obtains information from the other party's family, friends, classmates and colleagues through their conversations. However, this kind of data is second-hand and is not as reliable as the previous centralized method.
People are three-dimensional. In life, don't use a certain method to infer a person. We should learn to use several methods alternately to understand and investigate a person.
After reading the above, do you know how important it is to understand male psychology? If two people are together but don't understand each other, they will eventually be separated. Men don't want to find a person who doesn't know them all the time and put them around. Understanding male psychology can also regulate male psychology and avoid the occurrence of psychological diseases.