Men often have incorrect sexual problems, mainly including the following:
1: She just needs me. Many women do not mind toys, but they can harm men's self-esteem. Taomino stated that in fact, the use of sexual products between couples is a trend, such as men not being able to provide sustained and concentrated stimuli like vibrators, and men must learn to accept these assistive tools.
2: Women's moist bodies demonstrate sexual desire. Sometimes men find that a woman's vagina is not lubricated enough and think she has no sexual desire. Taomino stated that when a woman's sexual desire comes, the vagina may not necessarily be moist. Some women's vaginas are naturally wetter than others. Even for the same person, humidity can be affected by time, pressure, medication, and menstrual cycle.
3: Compare one's sexual abilities. Men often use the frequency of sexual intercourse from others as a reference for their own frequency, resulting in a sense of frustration. However, a 2010 survey by the Journal of Sexual Medicine showed that men's level of sexual activity is closely related to age and marital status. Tao Mino said that having too much or too little sex is not important, but the quality of sex is the most important. And too much and too little are also relative quantities. Single, newly married, and married for many years have different sexual behaviors. We should acknowledge this.
4: I know how to please women. Men usually believe that sexual experience that is effective for women applies to all women. Taomino said that every woman's sexual desire type is unique. For example, women have varying needs for frequency and depth of insertion during sexual intercourse. Brighton added that the intensity of sexual pleasure in sexual posture is also related to the size and shape of male organs and the body shape of women, and cannot be generalized.
5: No need for discussion. Togohe said that many couples do not know the appropriate language to describe sexual activity. He suggests that men can ask each other in neutral language. For example, the feeling of being fast, fierce, and stimulating here. In addition, couples can use foul language to enhance the pleasure of sexual intercourse.
6: Sex and love can be separated. The reason why sex is called sex is because sex is closely intertwined and not something that a person can enjoy. When you feel confused about the disharmony of sexual life, you should ask yourself whether you have given women enough security. In addition, women's sexual desire comes slowly and gains slowly, and men quickly become passionate. Hasty men may disrupt their sexual experience due to poor timing.
7: The purpose of sexual intercourse is to achieve orgasm. Men tend to divide sex into three stages: erection, foreplay, and insertion, with the ultimate goal being orgasm. In fact, orgasm is random. Togohe said that true sexual experience goes beyond organ stimulation. The human body is like an erotic map, and every region has the potential to enhance sexual desire. Having done homework in this area, even if there is no climax in the end, both parties can still have a very pleasant sexual experience.