Post Date April, 15 2023
"It's not a good thing for a woman to be too family oriented. The family is owned by two people and should be managed together."
The premise is to think and do for him and his children. Over time, the responsibility for the family rests entirely with one person. He feels that everything is normal in this way. If one day, you want to ask him to do something for your family, it will cause resentment.
"It's about sharing family responsibilities, slowly shifting the focus to a man, and helping yourself without having to support yourself. Eventually, you're half tired and won't please.". "I also get a share of the housework, otherwise I really don't think it's tiring.".
"Economic power must be grasped, and a sense of precaution is indispensable"
In the past, I used to hear from him that his salary was not enough for his own use, so he didn't want to give him a cent. Eventually, he realized that he wouldn't have to raise his children, because he didn't see this family using too little money. Even in times of crisis, he could borrow money without him. Of course, he didn't need to repay the money. Anyway, someone in the family paid money, and his own money was just enough to please his mistress.
"Even if a man has less money, he must use it properly. Although he has less money than he has taken away, there must be a known destination. Otherwise, a woman will work hard to save money to support her family, and other women over there will spend all their money to help you.". And in terms of economy, it is necessary to take precautions, as private money is always available.
Three children should be brought together by a husband and wife, and it is not advisable for single mothers in marriage to do so
Most moms always take care of their children's food, clothing, housing, transportation, and studies. They specialize in tutoring and other things. Dads spend a lot of time playing the signs of work and socializing every day. They also think that no one at home cares, so they go outside to find warmth.
Don't forget that he is the father of the child, and it is natural for him to do something for the child. It is better for him to spend more time with the child than with other women.
I must be healthy and beautiful
"Your body is a valuable asset, so you must take good care of it. In his words, 'Take care of yourself. If you're sick, I won't care about you.'" I was very angry when I first heard this, but when I thought it was reasonable, I didn't even love myself. How could someone else love you? ".
First, take care of your body. Health comes first. Second, dress yourself well. If you are beautiful, your mood will naturally improve.
"Don't rush to work, but have your own financial resources."
Whether you have a formal job or not is not the main thing. Of course, having a stable job is the safest. If you don't, you need to learn to make investments or something. In other words, you need to be able to support yourself.
Make investments to continue to ensure your independent life, prepare for work, pay attention to possible investment opportunities, and prepare for possible changes at any time.
Six should be blind to his various behaviors
Out of sight, out of mind, and unable to change him even if he sees it, it also makes him proud. Look at how excellent a man I am. Women from home and abroad are fighting and robbing. It's better to please yourself than to please him. As for what he likes, let's do it. Of course, the consequences must be clarified with him first, and then don't say we are unjust.
Do whatever you need to do. If you don't take him seriously, you have your id. In the Dream of Red Mansions, Sister Lin hit the nail on the head: Either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overwhelms the east wind. You can no longer be willing to be pressured, and then you can become the master.
Don't care too much about the relationship between seven mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, which is an old saying. "If you don't get along well, let's just let them play on their own. There's no need to take the move, no need to deal with it, because once you take the move, things get troublesome, just like one person can't sing a drama. If you ignore their tricks, they feel like they don't have the taste anymore, and instead, there's nothing to toss about.".
