Men are always careless, and when they face delicate women in love, some unintentional behaviors will make women hate them. In the process of getting along with lovers, knowing how to avoid mistakes is sometimes more important than knowing how to fall in love.
Seven evil behaviors that men are prone to commit in love
Some can't be said, some should be said earlier
Bad deed 1: offer an invitation at the last minute
A couple of men and women met at seven o'clock in the evening, and immediately got together again at about nine o'clock in the evening, which is not disrespectful.
The feeling of wanting to see each other suddenly is actually quite touching. But if his words are like this: "Hey! I made an appointment with my friend to have dinner, but it was canceled temporarily. Are you free now?" Such people will certainly be annoying.
Bad deed 2: mention of ex-girlfriend
This is probably the most common mistake lovers make. Saying that his ex-girlfriend is good in front of a woman means that he has not fully accepted the fact of breaking up. Blame his ex-girlfriend in front of a woman, which implies that if a woman breaks up with him in the future, the woman's evaluation in his mouth will not be much better. The best way is not to mention the experience of a relationship.
Bad deed 3: can't wait to rush to the bathroom
Jumping down from a woman's bed and rushing to the bathroom is certainly not a bad thing, unless he does it within 4 seconds after the women have finished their work. What does that mean? Did he want to say, "I feel so dirty, I need to wash myself as soon as possible?" The above plot appeared in the film "Sex and the City", and it was funny to play it. But in real life, it is hard for women to laugh when they meet people with this bathing habit.
The degree of intimacy varies from time to time
Bad deed 4: take out the condom too early or too late
The following is an unhappy experience of a netizen's message. She had a first date with a super Kawaii boy. They met at Pub at 11:00 in the evening. At 1:00 in the morning, they both felt pretty good. She was ready to kiss the boy's mouth, but then the man said, "Let's go! I have everything I need with me". She asked, "What are women talking about?" The boy replied, "It's a condom!" What do these boys think of girls? However, this kind of serious mistake has at least one merit. It is to let girls know that a woman is a straw bag earlier, so they don't have to waste more time with women.
In addition, there is also a situation worse than the previous one. A woman has been dating a guy for a period of time. This evening, the weather is convenient, and it is bound to develop a closer relationship. Everything went smoothly. The women took off their clothes, lay down comfortably and hugged each other happily until... In the dark, the woman suddenly heard his voice: "Did you think of the one I thought of? Because I forgot!"
The woman has invited him to the house. Do you have to prepare ultra-thin sensitive condoms in the drawer of the nightstand? Women are not professionals in the sex service industry. At this time, a woman had better stand up and get dressed and ask him to go home. If you can't take out the condom at a critical moment, you simply lack viability!
Bad deed 5: there is only one helmet on the locomotive
This is the experience of a colleague and friend. She was dating a popular variety show host, and he proposed to take her home. Unexpectedly, his car was not a car, but a motorcycle, and there was only a helmet on the car, and it was still raining that night... All these were tolerable, anyway, the girls were willing to take his car.
But who wears the helmet? Of course, it's male. His reason is: "I don't want to be photographed by paparazzi". So the girl called a taxi and went home. Later, when the boy called her again, she didn't want to answer!
A woman's heart is really elusive
Bad deed 6: being overly open
The following is a netizen's experience. During the summer vacation, netizens met a middle-aged man, who was as handsome as George Clooney and not as lecherous as him. Their love at first sight was so beautiful that it was not realistic; Under the tree in the park, the love talk lasted for two hours, and the eyes never left each other, until the sun tilted to the west. He said that he was an architect, had no children, and recently divorced
How can there be such a good thing in the world? Netizens feel that there must be fraud. Sure enough, at the moment when they met, he said, "Come to my house tonight. Women may as well bring a good friend with them. I am very keen on playing 3P."
Bad deed 7: Don't call or call
This is the case. Two people have been dating for a while, and one of them wants to break up, so he decides to cut off the news completely. When calling his home, he will always answer the phone with a tape recorder, and his mobile phone number has changed. He will bypass any place where a woman may go. How do women feel when they meet such people? It's sad to find that a woman once loved an asshole. What's worse, this asshole is still a coward!