Marriage has always been the most important thing in one's life. When it comes to the age of marriage, one has to consider how to find a man to spend the rest of one's life together. Among these, women should pay attention to several types of unreliable men, and men should also take a look to see if they have been shot!
1. A paranoid man
It is entirely understandable that men like to make decisions to show their dignity and status. However, if a man values these things too much, he tends to appear paranoid. This is not only manifested in work, but also often in life. Living with such men, women are often very painful, and women become slaves to men.
Xiao Zhang and her husband Xiaoxiao met through a friend's introduction. When I first met her, Xiao Zhang felt that her boyfriend was very assertive and basically expressed opinions on everything at the first time. Xiao Zhang felt that such a man had a lot of brains, so he easily let this man take possession of his body. However, with the increase in contacts, Xiao Zhang feels that her boyfriend is becoming more domineering and there is no room for discussion about anything. Xiao Zhang has tried several times to change his boyfriend's habits, but his boyfriend thinks Xiao Zhang doesn't respect him. After four years, Xiao Zhang proposed to break up without any means, but he wasted four years of his best youth in vain.
2. A man who is not good at communication.
In the rapidly changing modern society, communication has become a fashionable term, and communication has become the main means for people to solve problems. Today, with the increasing divorce rate, many couples divorce due to poor communication. Communication can not only resolve misunderstandings between couples, but also enhance their feelings.
Bai Jing and her husband have been married for three years. Before getting married, Bai Jing felt that her husband didn't talk much, and when she met, it was more Bai Jing who spoke. Bai Jing told her parents about her feelings, and when they said, "Silence is golden," Bai Jing didn't care. After getting married, Bai Jing discovers that her husband is silent. After returning from work, she learns to watch TV or play games. At first, Bai Jing took the initiative to talk to him, but finally found that her husband was not interested in Bai Jing's words at all. Bai Jing thought that her husband had an affair, but after a period of observation, she found that there was none at all. Once, Bai Jing lost her temper in a hurry, and her husband just perfunctorily said, "Why are you talking? Are you tired from speaking?" Facing a husband who has no communication with her, Bai Jing cannot imagine what will happen in the future? Unable to bear it anymore, Bai Jing chose to divorce.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)