What about men's premarital Libido? Every healthy adult male will have sexual impulse, which is a normal physiological reaction. In love, when facing a beloved girl, men often cannot suppress it. What about men's premarital Libido?
When young men and women turn from friends to lovers, especially when they enter the seductive, excited, sweet, and happy stage of love, they often forget, as if everything around them has disappeared, only the passion of love and emotional intoxication. When they snuggle up with their beloved girl, young people are prone to Libido due to two emotions, emotions and meanings.
Libido is an internal force that tends to the opposite sex, and it is a normal sexual psychological phenomenon. After entering puberty, males continuously secrete sex hormones and undergo mutations in various physiological functions, leading to rapid maturation of the reproductive organs and their functions. During a romantic relationship, psychological activities such as emotions, emotions, memory, and imagination related to sex are very active. The girl's bright eyes and teeth, slim figure and fragrant breath, in short, all the stimuli to the young people's vision, taste, hearing, touch and smell are important factors leading to his Libido. If you compare feeling to an oar, then reason is the rudder.
Only with the tacit cooperation of the two can the ship of love reach the other shore of happiness. Before marriage, young people may encounter this test of control skills. The waves caused by Libido will make young people feel confused and at a loss, even overturn and stranded the ship. Only young people with strong willpower can calm the waves and set sail.
Premarital sex is a deviant behavior that violates social morality in the love stage, and it does great harm to the development of love.
1. Premarital sex is illegal
In China, sexual activity is a legal right for couples and an important component of their daily life. It must be protected by law and cannot occur between any man or woman at will.
2. Premarital sex is easy to cause frustration
Love has two futures, either the lover gets married, or there is no chance to part ways. If a sexual relationship occurs, once one party likes the new, gets tired of the old, seeks new love, or breaks up for other reasons, it will cause serious setbacks and setbacks to the other party. It will bring greater pain to young women.
3. Premarital sex will lead to psychological barriers of both parties
The parties involved are often in a state of tension and urgency. In addition, in most cases, young people lack the necessary sexual knowledge, making it difficult to discuss a happy and harmonious sexual life. It not only leads to a decrease in sexual pleasure on wedding nights, but also leads to some girls having abnormal views on sexual life. For example, they believe that sexual life is painful and unhappy, and they feel tired, disgusted, and afraid of it, leading to frigidity and affecting normal sexual life after marriage. If you accidentally get pregnant, both parties will be in an awkward situation. Although early abortion is safe, it can bring physical and mental pain and loss to girls, and some dangerous complications can also occur.
4. Premarital sex may lead to unhappiness in married life
Some men, with the idea of being married in the future, have sex with girls without registering their marriage. But afterwards, the girl's problem gradually exposed, and the young people felt dissatisfied. However, raw rice turned into cooked rice, and they regretted it was too late and had to reluctantly get married. Similarly, some girls give in hastily under the sweet words of men, even though they feel that the other person is not ideal over time. In order to consider reputation, they also have to compromise and reluctantly combine. This lack of basic marriage is not happy.
How to adjust your Libido?
1. The mystery of sex should be broken. Due to historical reasons, Chinese people have a deep-rooted belief in the color changes of sex and the concept of sexuality and obscenity. Therefore, young people should read books introducing sexual knowledge to enhance their ability to suppress impulses and reduce the mystery of sex.
2. Young people should strengthen willpower training. When sexual desire appears, we should use corresponding methods to remind and hint ourselves to alleviate Libido. In addition to dating a girl, you can also participate in some beneficial social and entertainment activities with her to distract your attention from sex and elevate your love. You know, true love should be mutual respect and nobility, not just emotional impulses and whims. In love, understanding oneself, loving each other, giving desire a new charm, and measuring the depth of desire with reason. The wider a person's range of non sexual activities, the more noble their sexual activity becomes.
3. When interacting with girls, it is important to appropriately reduce the amount of sustained love talk and overly intimate actions. From a physiological perspective, touching, kissing, and hugging are most likely to stimulate male sexual desire. Therefore, young people should be good at restraining themselves. As Satubiya said: Love and charcoal are the same. You must try to make it cool. If you let it burn freely, it will burn a heart. Because sexual behavior involves not only responsibility towards oneself, but also responsibility towards others and its impact on society. The degree of willpower control in love is a measure of whether love is mature or not.
4. Use masturbation appropriately. When young people become passionate and uncontrollable, as long as masturbation is regarded as a hobby and does not harm others and society, it can be regarded as an emergency way to regulate and channel impulses and avoid Premarital sex.