Premarital sex can also cause harm to men, which should be avoided as much as possible

When Premarital sex occurs, if both parties are willing, men tend to be more conscious than women in terms of sexual physiological and psychological reactions. Although both parties are very nervous, men are more sensitive and sensitive to the surrounding environment due to the physiological conditions of sexual hormone response, so they are more nervous. For fear of being discovered by others, he will try to speed up his Libido and force himself to stop having sex. Of course, in this situation, women cannot obtain the psychological and physiological satisfaction of normal sexual behavior. Especially young people, who have experienced potentially harmful stimuli and stopped engaging in sexual activity. Over time, the suppression of this potential sense of guilt and the stimulation of unhealthy psychology have formed a strong conditioned reflex on men.

So even if we get married, this conditioned reflex will not be effectively changed in a short period of time. Just like we suddenly transitioned from a poor living environment to a relatively affluent one. We cannot immediately enjoy life freely, but there will be a process of adaptation, during which our hearts are quite lost. Human sexual psychology is the psychological mechanism that is most susceptible to external stimuli in psychology and psychological activities. Although marriage is a sexual behavior state that should not have psychological burden, in real life, temporary Sexual dysfunction is not uncommon in first marriage, and it mostly occurs in men.

Due to the long-term occurrence of Premarital sex, both the husband and wife lost their sense of freshness after marriage, and their sex life became more frequent and their purpose was more clear, which virtually only played the role of "reviewing" the husband's psychological barriers. So, the husband mentioned that his wife takes a shower during the day, and his occasional normal behavior in dreams indicates that he has normal sexual and psychological activity patterns. But he needs to break free from the constraints of conditioned reflex, restore mental health in the new situation, relax his mental and psychological "amnesia", and awaken his interest in "sex" again.

The psychological damage of Premarital sex to men is a typical case. In fact, more implicit harm has not been fully recognized by everyone. The male's laissez faire Premarital sex will make his "sexual" interest increasingly numb, and turn a blind eye to the sexual psychological and physiological signals in the sexual life of married couples, thus seriously affecting the quality of sexual life after marriage. In this way, even if there is no crisis in the marital relationship, his psychological and psychological needs to "arouse" sexual interest will make him particularly sensitive to receiving new psychological and physiological signals. Therefore, we should recognize and try our best to avoid the psychological harm of Premarital sex to men. After marriage, both spouses should pay attention to getting rid of the psychological shadow caused by this kind of harm, and jointly cultivate healthy sexual behavior and psychological activity patterns, so as to fully enjoy the beauty of life.