Parents should educate the concept of sexual privacy after children are five years old

Ma Ning, an expert on father-son relationship and spiritual leader in old marriage, said that sex has always been a problem that parents want to avoid but must face. From birth, children lie in their mother's arms, snuggle against their mother's breasts, and have direct contact with their mother's body and smell, which will produce a deep sense of attachment. As they grow up, they will certainly be curious about their own and their parents' bodies. If the homeopathic guidance is good, children can clearly and naturally understand the body of both sexes, so they do not have to look for unsafe resources to understand each other under the ignorant state of adolescence.

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Naked in front of children?

Now there is a new idea that parents should face their children's curiosity about sexual organs frankly. The more they hide their children's sexual impulse, the more naked they are in front of the children, bathe with them, and walk naked in front of the children. Is that true?

Ma Ning believes that this approach is possible when children are young, but it is not appropriate that the turning point of the birth of children's social behavior is when children begin to enter kindergarten. Ignoring human sociality is easy to make children lose their own social development.

When the child is young, parents suggest that the child take a bath, but after kindergarten, with the difference between male and female concepts, parents must let the child take a bath. Let children not only understand the differences between the sexes, but also understand the mutual respect between the sexes; Not only understand the difference between 'I' and the opposite sex through parents, but also understand that there are boundaries between yourself and your parents! Beyond this boundary, learn to take care of yourself and take care of your body. At first, children may not be able to wash clean, but they should be encouraged to try and work hard. Parents should try not to take the place of work and give proper help.

Ma Ning pointed out that after kindergarten, parents should start to cultivate their children's concept of privacy, especially after the age of 5, how to respect the privacy of others and how to privacy are important contents of children's learning. Are children interested in the sexual organs of heterosexual parents?

Sometimes, if parents don't pay attention when taking a bath or changing clothes, they may be accidentally seen by children with naked bodies or even sexual organs. Parents don't have to be embarrassed about the curiosity and interest shown by their children. They can avoid it a little, but they always face it with a calm and calm attitude, which makes children feel nothing strange and naturally won't pay attention to it. Of course, if children deliberately touch their parents' sexual organs for curiosity, although this is normal behavior, they must guide them in time, so that children can understand curiosity, but not transit.