Sexual Health
Parents are the sexual enlightenment teachers for children. Early sex education for children is better
Nowadays, whether in society, schools, or parents, there is an increasing emphasis on sex education for children. However, the starting point for sex education for children is good, but it has not achieved the expected results. This is mainly because only educating children about sexual physiology without providing guidance on their sexual psychology and personality. So, how should sex education be conducted? Today's editor introduced how to educate children about sex.
If she is a girl, be sure to tell her that she will have menstruation when she grows up. When menarche arrives, don't panic or worry. Menstruation is a normal physiological phenomenon for girls, a sign of growth and maturity, not a disease. At the same time, how to handle it and pay attention to hygiene, etc. If it is a boy, he will ejaculate as he grows up. Ejaculation does not cause harm or loss to the body, which is a phenomenon of ordinary young men and there is no need for ideological pressure.
Teaching children to cope with physiological changes
Sex education for children should not only inform them of any changes in their body, but also teach them how to do it and how to avoid bad practices. Girls should not be ashamed of the development and bulge of their breasts, should not restrain their breasts, should not be afraid of gaining weight and losing weight, and should not wear high heels
Provide sexual ethics education for children
The core and focus of sex education for children is sexual ethics education, which should teach children to interact correctly with the opposite sex, have self-esteem, and respect. Their heterosexual interactions are different from those of the same sex. Especially, the transparency of the time, place, and method of communication must comply with China's own customs and ethnic characteristics, be generous, avoid causing misunderstandings from others, and limit the interaction between both parties to a level of classmate like friendship. When feeling emotions that transcend friendship, do not easily expose them. Have lofty aspirations, consider the requirements of future society for young people, and consider that you do not have true love conditions in all aspects and cannot bear various responsibilities arising from it. If you want to love someone, you cannot hurt them.
We should encourage boys and girls to respect each other, get along well, and treat each other equally, to prevent the occurrence of early love, and to prevent normal interactions between them. The normal interaction between male and female adolescents is an important foundation for breaking the mystery of sex and establishing a sound sexual concept. Sex education is to cultivate the firmness of sexual morality and overcome the negative phenomena of gender relations. Correct sex education can avoid many mistakes, mistakes, pain, and misfortunes in the lives of teenagers, enabling them to grow up physically and mentally healthily.
Teaching children correct cognition
Children have a strong curiosity about sex, especially during adolescence. At this time, children have already started to have love, but due to lack of knowledge, whether it is important exploration or not, it is easy to misunderstand under the threat of bad people and the temptation of bad partners. In addition, a more important aspect of sex education is to prevent sexual abuse of boys and girls, with special attention paid to sexual offenders, alcoholics, and adolescents with early sexual development who sexually abuse children.
Accept the changes in one's own body, have a healthy sexual psychology, and protect oneself from harm.
Early sex education for children is better
Unlike previous generations who grew up many years ago, the growth process of modern children is accompanied by various TV dramas and movies, which have intimate scenes. Nowadays, children are psychologically precocious and physically developed, with many girls menstruating at the age of 8 or 9. Parents should pay attention to their children's development and changes in a timely manner, provide sex education to their children as soon as possible, and not always expect the timing to be ripe. They should talk to their children and solve all major problems.
You should talk about sex with your child when they start asking me where I come from. Children are simply curious, or rather eager to learn knowledge. If parents treat sexual issues as hidden topics and cover them up, they are more likely to arouse children's curiosity and talk about sex as an ordinary issue. This way, when a child enters adolescence and has troubles, they will come to seek their parents' assistance.
Implicit Sexual Education in Life
Sex education does not need to be deliberate, it can be carried out subtly in daily life. For example, when a child is young, parents can use their shared bathing time to naturally discuss organ development and hygiene issues with the child. They can also use schools to raise silkworms and discuss animal reproduction and death. When neighbors and relatives are pregnant and giving birth, they can start discussing how childbirth is like, take their children for walks in the park, take outings in the countryside, and observe animals and plants, Explain how organisms transmit pollen and mate to reproduce life
In addition, you can also purchase some sex education books that are suitable for children's age, and after children read them, discuss with them to listen to their views on these contents.