Post Date April, 15 2023
The ancient women with three obediences and four virtues are what men want to protect. But as women in the new era, they will no longer walk through the door without two steps, but this does not mean that they are not good wives.
The charm of "busy"
Men don't like their girlfriends or wives who are tired of him all the time. They always use the excuse of busy work to teach their partners that they can't check their work, can't disturb their work, can't make N phone calls a day to talk about their feelings, etc. Therefore, women should also learn to be busy, even if they don't do anything, they should show their busy appearance, and occasionally refuse to "disturb" their lovers, because this way of communication is the most direct and effective in the eyes of men.
Refuse to disclose more
Everyone has his own little secret and private encrypted space, so don't be like a child and tell your lover everything, let alone answer whatever your lover asks, without any reservation. Women should learn to have their own privacy. This is not to be frank with their lovers, but a way to be themselves. Men are the kind of people who don't cherish when they get it. Therefore, if you have a little privacy or refuse a man's questions properly, the man will become more interested in you, rather than treat you as if you are his bag.
Don't show jealousy
When men see women who are more beautiful than their partners, they can't help but bring up interest. If you are a wife, you are wrong. Women should learn to prove to men that there are men who are better than their husbands who covet themselves. A man who occasionally eats his wife's vinegar several times can promote the harmony of the husband and wife relationship.
"Initiative" becomes an art
The idea of ancient women is basically that of three obediences and four virtues, but in modern times, the idea of new women is more open. Modern couples don't want teenagers in love. They are shy, and cry and sulk when they are not happy. After the baptism of marriage, the old husbands and wives tend to express their thoughts with a simple look and an ambiguous word. When they are happy, they will be together, and when they are unhappy, they will be separated. They are still friends.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
