Post Date April, 15 2023
Among married men and women, many unknowingly "die" in this "besieged city" of love, while others, under careful management, turn this besieged city into a sweet garden for each other. Why is there such a big difference in the siege of love?
If we can pay close attention to the subtle changes in marital relationships and be adept at discovering and resolving conflicts between couples through specific data, then we already have a clear answer in our hearts, which is that the use of "heart" in marriage determines the height of marital quality.
In fact, in real life, attentive couples can always handle their relationships properly in many details, and can also gain a rational understanding through quantitative analysis. Therefore, mastering the testing method of 'love' is more beneficial for our lives. Here are 15 emotional choice test questions for couples, with a score calculation method of A.5 points; B. 8 points; C. 6 points; D. 4 points; E. 2 points.
1. Believing that disloyalty is the main cause of conflicts between your husband and wife:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
2. You go out together for activities:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
3. Believing that life would be better without marriage:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
4. You can communicate with each other about personal matters:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
5. Understanding each other's life pursuits and values:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
6. Husband and wife trust each other:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
7. Mutual satisfaction with the sexual life of the couple:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
8. There is consensus on handling family economic issues:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
9. Conflicts between husband and wife in their daily habits:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
10. You feel satisfied with handling each other's family and friend relationships:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
11. Dissatisfied with the way and to whom your spouse makes friends:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
12. Couples have enough time to live together:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
13. Couples may argue and vomit due to some differences:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
14. Satisfied with the spouse's career and financial income:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
15. Unable to adapt to the other person's temperament and personality:
A. Always B. Often C. Sometimes D. Rarely E. Never
Above 80 points, the marital relationship is very harmonious
For these couples, marriage is not like what many people say is the "grave" of love. Instead, it is the "gas station" of your love, which continuously deepens the relationship between each other. Of course, sometimes you may have some minor frictions, but this is just a small interlude in life. After the rain clears, the rainbow of love will appear.
51 to 80 points, ideal marital relationship
People with scores at this stage need to pay attention to their relationships with each other. Although their love is sweet, there is still a certain gap compared to those in the previous score range. So, it should be regarded as a normal phenomenon, and the key is to cultivate common values. Once values change, it will cast a shadow on the relationship between husband and wife, and you should always pay attention to this.
0-50 points, marital relationship needs improvement
At this stage, people may already feel the tension in their marital relationship without the need for this test, but this test more intuitively tells you the level of tension in your relationship. At this moment, what needs to be done is to calmly handle various conflicts between each other, after all, love is not easy to come by.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
