Post Date April, 15 2023
Men all know that extramarital love is wrong and can destroy the relationship between husband and wife. But why do men still "follow one another", ignoring the tragic cases of extramarital love on TV and looking for mistresses and lovers outside? Let's go and find out the reason with the editor.
Looking for feelings
Some men view their lovers as better marriage partners, but this proportion is relatively small. There are often complex emotional backgrounds behind a life and death love affair, and such an affair leads to a high proportion of divorces.
Sexual satisfaction
This is the biggest "gain" for men in extramarital affairs. Most extramarital affairs have a transactional nature. Men with normal sexual lives treat extramarital affairs as curiosity; Men who are not satisfied with their sexual lives transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs.
Find a Mood
Many men emphasize that the reason they fall in love with their lover is because she is gentler, more beautiful, and more caring for themselves than their first wife. They want to find a better woman. Looking for a lover is different from his wife in temperament, style, and style. He likes his partner to bring a bit of mystery and seduction, while his wife has been quite familiar with each other due to their long-term life together, without the beauty of distance, and the lover just meets their psychological needs.
Looking for youth
People often think that only women care about their age, and they are keen to cover up the traces of age through makeup, clothing, beauty, and physical beauty. In fact, men also care whether they are still young, energetic, and attractive, which is also a competitive capital for men.
Find an identity
Generally, only wealthy men can afford a lover. In the eyes of some people, a lover has become a symbol of identity and status, just like villas, luxury cars, and designer clothes. Beautiful lovers seem to have become a live advertisement for men with status.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
