Post Date April, 15 2023
A couple is like a pair of 'enemies', and arguments are all about' arguing over the bed and the bed '. Some people believe that there is no conflict, but in fact, occasional arguments between couples can also be beneficial.
1. Moderate venting of negative emotions is beneficial for physical health. Couples who enter middle age have significant emotional fluctuations, and some who enter menopause are more likely to become angry. In daily life, some small frictions may lead to conflicts between couples, and situations such as "suffocation" and suffocation may also occur frequently.
Having 'qi' that doesn't release can be very harmful to the body, and if the knots in the heart don't unravel, it can easily generate a sense of resentment. These negative emotions have an impact on both the body and emotions. So, vent your resentment and your mood will be relaxed. Of course, couples who have lived together for many years have a deep understanding of each other. Small frictions do not shake the relationship, and moderate arguments become a good way to vent their turbid energy and empty their minds Age differences can also cause marital distress
2. Husband and wife quarrels promote relationships. As the saying goes, 'fighting at the head of the bed and getting along at the end of the bed' is not a conflict between a husband and wife. No matter how big the situation is, it will calm down and make up as before. In the process of arguing, men are mostly the tolerant party, while women are the vent. Even if she keeps arguing and making noise, she often ends up crying bitterly.
Few men have a heart of stone when they see a woman's tears. Even if the other person is wrong, they must "bow their head and plead guilty" and "apologize". As a result, women will feel the love of men and know that the other party is willing to tolerate them. This sweet and warm feeling will move and introspect women, and the conflict will disappear, deepening the relationship between both parties.
3. Check for omissions and make up for deficiencies. No wind, no waves. A couple's argument must be due to the accumulation of conflicts in their daily lives, and the other party's shortcomings have reached the point of "unbearable". Once there is a quarrel, it is natural to criticize the other person to the fullest. Loyal words are harsh to the ear, and when arguing, everyone may find it unbearable. However, upon reflection, many of them are their own shortcomings and shortcomings.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
