Post Date April, 15 2023
I can't believe I'm still a premature ejaculator for a long time after my marriage. At first, I always thought it was caused by too much excitement in the first few days of my marriage. In those days, I was very sexually demanding, almost every day. My wife is also willing to have sex with me. However, less than half a minute after the start of sex, there is a heat flow coming from the lower abdomen, and how can we control the ejaculation. At this time, my wife just felt that I was about to enjoy happiness, but I turned into a pile of mud.
After many times of premature ejaculation, I have a fear of sex. My relationship with my wife is obviously cold. When my ex-wife came home from work, I would go forward and kiss her. Now I just say, "You are back." Even for more than half a month, I dare not touch her body. My wife is also worried about me. Sometimes she takes the initiative to get close to me, but I refuse her coldly. But I feel very painful inside, and I don't want to! A man in his thirties is at the peak of his sexual desire. I also desire the pleasure of being immortal and dying. I also want to do my duty as a husband and let my wife enjoy the pleasure of sex, but I can't! What's the meaning of being such a husband?
So one night after dinner, I asked my wife for a divorce. I said, "I can't give you a perfect husband and wife life. You should have a better way of life. I'm sorry for you, please promise me to divorce!" The wife cried, crying very sad. How I persuaded her, she cried "sobbing" until I vowed never to mention the word "divorce" again. My wife just calmed down and said to me, "I also know that sex is really important for couples, but the more important thing between them is love. We meet for love and get married for love. Do we want to divorce for this kind of thing? Then our love is too fragile. Besides, you are not incompetent, because you are too anxious. It will get better slowly." Since that conversation, my wife has taken a number of measures to help me treat premature ejaculation.
First, give me confidence and discuss sexual knowledge together. In fact, my wife, like me, has only a partial understanding of sexual knowledge. So my wife changed her shyness, bought books about sex knowledge from the bookstore, studied with me, and found out the reason for my premature ejaculation, saying that I was too sensitive. I think so.
Second, let me master sexual skills in the face of stimulation. In order to reduce my sexual sensitivity, my wife asked me to see her naked in the light and let me touch her slowly... She also stroked my body and stimulated me, but did not let me have sex with her. Let me control and prolong the erection time in my desire.
Third, care about me in life and let me treat sexual life with a normal heart. According to the introduction in the book, my wife gave me the necessary supplements to improve my physical quality, and said to me that it doesn't matter whether I succeed or not when I have sex. Don't worry about it. The most important thing between husband and wife is love, not sexual satisfaction.
With the help of my wife and the change of my body position during the * * *, I mainly used my wife's position at first, and then transferred to other positions when I stopped premature ejaculation. After a period of efforts, I finally overcome the sexual fear brought by premature ejaculation and enjoyed the pleasure and beauty of sexual life with my wife.
