That year, they fell in love. Soon, she was pregnant with his child and married in a hurry. At the age of 20, he became a father and had a lovely daughter.
When his daughter was one and a half years old and just weaned, he and his wife left home for a small business. The daughter was brought up by her grandparents. The husband and wife worked in the hardware business from morning to night. The business was average, but there was still money to earn. Two years later, they gave birth to a son. As usual, they weaned their son over one year old and sent him back to his hometown in Henan. With a strong desire to expand business, the wife keeps the shop, and the husband goes out to run business. The relationship between husband and wife is very good. Every day, the money earned will be sent back to his hometown, and the new house will be built in his hometown. Both parents and family feel very proud, and the young couple also feel very successful.
Just as the days passed, an accident completely destroyed the family. It is common for the husband to go on business. Thinking that his wife has been used to keeping the shop alone, he always does not trust the safety of his beautiful wife. Every time I call outside to report that I am safe, and send a message with my wife to urge her to close the doors and windows.
One day, his mobile phone was stolen by a thief. He couldn't contact his family for a while, so he hurried back to the store. It was twelve o'clock in the evening when he arrived at the store. He didn't want to disturb his wife, so he took the key to open the door and entered the house. When he turned on the light, he was shocked by what he saw. My wife and her best friend, who are also business partners, rolled naked on the same bed. He immediately felt the blood rushing up his head. He was so angry that he picked up the cup on the table and hit it.
He could not bear to move his wife's hair at ordinary times. At this time, he was furious and beat his wife hard, and the brother had already escaped. His wife was ashamed and took the initiative to divorce, but he could not forgive his wife's adultery. Leave quickly. What about a couple of children? The wife was so obsessed that she just wanted to divorce and remarry her lover as soon as possible. She kept saying, "I don't want any children. I can't afford them." The daughter was 12 years old, and the son was 10 years old. With one voice, she despised her mother: "We despise you. Even if the court awarded you, we won't go with you."
After the divorce, frustrated, he gave up his business and went to Hangzhou to drive a taxi to earn money to support his children. But as a mother, he never went to see a pair of children. Unexpectedly, her lover who secretly fell in love with her did not want to give up his family, so she failed. Looking back for her husband, she wanted to remarry. At this time, her husband was in a bad mood and the two children refused to see their mother.
The above is what the taxi driver told me one night when he took a taxi. It has been more than two years since he told his true story. He still can't forget it for a long time. He also reflected on why his marriage was so unhappy? If the victims of extramarital love can find the signs of danger early and pay more attention to the other half, then most of them can take preventive measures before the event occurs, and will not cause the breakdown of the family. It is concluded that four types of men are the most likely to cultivate adulterous women. Men who are too obsessed with their hobbies. A man who treats his wife with outstanding career as a thief. Men who don't understand romance and women's style, four. Family affairs and personal emotions dominate men.
It is estimated that this taxi driver belongs to the third and fourth categories. If there are such dangerous signs in your marriage life. So whether your spouse has actually had an affair or not, your relationship has started to deteriorate and needs attention. What can maintain the marriage relationship? I think it is loyalty and respect for each other. It is very painful to be betrayed. We should pay special attention to such things. Before getting off the taxi, the 34-year-old taxi driver was full of vicissitudes. Although he didn't go back to his hometown in Henan for the Spring Festival in order to earn more money, he introduced many women to his friends again and again, but considering that the stepmother was not good for the two children, if she dared not look for them again, it would be harder to be alone. I send him my sincere blessing and tell him that if he has the right one, he still needs to find a woman who is good to you and the children and become a complete family.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)