Post Date April, 15 2023
My husband is four years older than me. We met through a matchmaker.
My husband is the only child in the family. He has grown up in a family environment since childhood. Although his family is relatively rich and happy, the only thing that concerns the family is his husband. He has been weak and ill since childhood, and has not been in good health. Maybe it is related to this reason. He has been loved by his mother since childhood, and his family has never let him go far away, so he has never seen much of the world, They were kept at home by their parents since childhood, so they are basically obedient to their parents.
When I met him, I only thought he was a little thin, but he was still very smart. Because I think I am not too young. Although I have worked outside for several years, I haven't found a suitable family. My parents always urge me to come back and say they want to make a blind date for me and don't let me marry far away. After I come back, the matchmaker introduced him to me. I thought for a while, he is not a very weak boy, and his family conditions are also good. At least, I won't worry about material matters with him, so I should be married.
I thought I had married a good mother-in-law, but the next day after I married, my mother-in-law called me over and told me that his son was very weak since he was young. Because newlyweds are all young people, especially his son, who has never touched a woman, and worried that his body would fall over, he simply asked me to promise her that he must take the initiative to abstinence in the first half of the year after marriage, and that he can only sleep with her three times a week in the month after marriage, Sleep in separate rooms at other times.
I was ashamed to hear it, but my mother-in-law spoke eloquently, regardless of my feelings. She asked me to take the initiative to explain this matter to her son, but could not mention that it was her idea. She said that it was better for me to explain it. She said that if she did not listen to the advice, she would directly talk to her son about this matter. I thought about it for a while. I told me all these things like this. Can't I still follow her instructions? I'm new again. I don't want to contradict my mother-in-law, and she looks like a very powerful mother-in-law. I have to obey her.
However, her husband didn't want to. Finally, her mother-in-law told her husband about it directly. He was embarrassed to accept his mother's request.
Now, I am looking forward to the end of this month every day. What kind of newlyweds are there? This is blatantly unreasonable. I am not the kind of unreasonable person, and I will not ignore the body of my newlywed husband. Even if he asks for anything in this regard, I will think about his body, but my mother-in-law's approach is too overbearing, It's not convenient for me to contradict and reason with her about this kind of thing. I think I care about this kind of thing when I talk too much, so I'm afraid it will hit her.
Now, I can't talk about this kind of thing with others. I can only bear it slowly. I hope that this month will pass earlier. I hope that after this month, my mother-in-law will not think of any other way to make trouble for us.
