"My husband went to the house to ask for a youth loss fee to avoid being haunted by a third party. I was confused."

My husband has a very respectable job. He is a leader in the company, with over thirty people under his command, and he is commanding. At home, he is the image of a good husband. After work, he often helps me cook, clear the dishes, and clean up. I feel satisfied to find such a husband. In our first year of marriage, we had a baby, and the arrival of the child added a lot of laughter to the family.

Life is on the right track, I have my own job outside, and at home, I love my husband and teach my children. In a flash, my marriage has gone through the past seven years. What followed was a seven-year puzzle to stop itching. My husband cheated on me and had an affair with me for a year. If it weren't for a third party coming to my door, I don't know how long I would have been kept in the dark. That day was Saturday, and my husband had to go on a business trip to get home on Monday. After a busy day, my child stayed at home to rest. He held the tablet to watch cartoons, and I made small Dim sum for him in the kitchen. The peaceful and comfortable life makes me feel very happy, not only humming a little song. However, what happened later made me unforgettable all my life.

Suddenly, a ringing bell at the door broke the cozy atmosphere. The moment I opened the door, I saw a strange woman wearing fashionable clothes and sunglasses. Before I could ask who I was looking for, she came up with a scolding, holding my husband's name and asking xx to come out for me. If I didn't take out the money today, I told him to go to his unit. I quickly coaxed the child into his room to play. This kind of scene is not easy for him to see, and it's too scary.

Her voice shook all the neighbors around her. "I pulled her into the room and spoke well, but she threw her away and shouted at my husband's name, saying that if I didn't speak clearly today, everyone would have a hard time.". The neighbors were pointing around and discussing that I had never encountered such an unruly and unreasonable woman, and I was a bit overwhelmed for a moment. Explain to her that your husband is not at home. I can help you contact him and come in if you have any questions. "I sent my neighbors away, saying there was a slight friction between my distant relatives and my husband. It's nothing serious, let's go.". After that, we began to talk inside the room.

"I thought she was the creditor of my husband, but what she said after me made me confused.". She took out her mobile phone and pointed to those self photos and bed photos for me, saying, "This man, who has been sleeping with me for almost a year, broke up after saying goodbye. I don't want fame or status to spend time with him, and he wants to break up with me. It's okay to break up, give me a sum of money to make up for my youth loss, and I'll disappear immediately."! Looking at the photos on my mobile phone and listening to what she said in her mouth, I felt as if I had inserted a knife in my heart, causing pain.

In the atmosphere at that time, I felt like I was almost suffocating. I picked up my phone and dialed my husband's phone number with trembling hands, but the phone was turned off. The woman said with a disdainful expression, 'You must be hiding from me. I'll wait here until he comes back.'! "I suppressed my anger and advised her to go back first. When my husband comes back, I'll check it out. If it's true, I'll ask him to explain it to you. The child is at home today, so don't scare the baby.". This woman has a bit of conscience. When she heard me say that the child would stop making trouble, she told me before she left. If she didn't give her an explanation, she wouldn't give up.

After she left, I burst into tears. My husband's phone was still off. On Monday, he came back as planned. I told him about the woman's coming home and causing trouble. "My composure made my husband kneel down in front of me in fear and said a lot of things I'm sorry for, saying, 'This woman is so cruel, she asked me to pay 300000 yuan before giving up. I don't agree with her and she calls and harasses me every day. However, I only went out for two days to clean up and turn off my phone. I didn't expect her to come to my door. I'm sorry for you. I'll handle it properly, please give me time.'". My husband held my hand, but I felt so disgusting. I shook off his hand and took the child back to my mother's house. This thing came so suddenly that I was completely confused. What should I do? Teacher, please help me.

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

Hello. Let's calm down your mood first. It's understandable that the wife's mood is temporarily difficult to accept when she learns that her husband has an affair. Can you analyze it? As a third party, one is for affection and the other is for money. Today, the third party who comes to your door is obviously for your husband's money. She has started a threat mode to ask for youth fees, and it is still a significant amount. This kind of woman has no bottom line. Even if you give her money, she will probably make more demands in the future to claim benefits from you, just like a bottomless pit, and will never be satisfied.

After careful consideration, your husband said he would solve it himself. In the face of this kind of matter, he adopted a hidden approach, which shows that he can't solve it at all. If he gave the money to a third party, you think it's your husband's common property, and you are willing to fall into the hands of others? In the current situation, it is recommended that you stand beside your husband and fight against a third party with her. If she is making trouble, you can defend your rights and interests through legal means. When the third party's tactics fail, she will leave on her own. At that time, you are considering how to handle the relationship with your husband, and you will weigh the priorities yourself.