My husband is a wealthy second generation and is particularly kind to me. He picks up everything I eat and spit with his hands, or if I want to eat big cherries, he buys them boxes and boxes for me, washes my feet, and carries me upstairs. In short, he really cares about me every inch, and I also performed hymen repair surgery for him because he has a virgin complex.
After two years of marriage, I have sex almost every day except during my menstrual period. My husband doesn't want children. During this period, I spanked three children for him. My husband still doesn't want to wear a TT, and he has a strong sexual desire. When I don't want to, I still have no way to refuse because I love him very much.
My husband treats me very well during the day and takes care of me meticulously, but at night he seems to have changed a person. In recent months, he has made various abnormal requests, such as tying me with a rope, whipping me with a whip, and dropping wax on me... I really don't know where he learned all this. I endured it for a few days, but I can't bear it anymore. I'm now bruised and tired, and I can't talk to my family and friends, fearing that my husband might lose face over this.
What should I do? I still love my husband, he is still so kind to me, just like this at night. Can the blogger give me some advice? Does my husband really love me? I'm puzzled. I really can't live this afternoon. I want a divorce, but I can't bear it.
Re:
Hello, friend. People with sexual abuse tendencies definitely have psychological problems. "He gives you meticulous care and care, no doubt he wants to trap you to death, and then enjoy you even more excitedly.". If you want to solve your husband's psychological problems, finding a psychologist is the first choice. However, for your husband, he secretly rejects seeing a psychologist because he doesn't feel that he has a psychological problem, and he doesn't think it's inappropriate to engage in sexual abuse.
However, youth only comes once, and no matter how much prosperity a person has, having a healthy body is the most important. Such torture will not only destroy your body, but also afflict your heart. In the long run, you will not only lose your health, but also become a mentally ill person.
Therefore, you should cherish your youth and health and let your husband make a choice: either see a psychologist for treatment, correct sexual abuse, or seek happiness through divorce. Xiao Pan believes that a normal man who loves you will not be so ruthless in destroying your body and mind. The more you tolerate sacrifice, the more he will gain. In this case, you must showdown with him as soon as possible to avoid worse things happening.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)