Sexual Health
My husband and junior have been staying in a hotel for half a month and said nothing happened
Q:
"In 2001, I married my husband, who didn't have a house or a car. Instead, he had a bunch of brothers and sisters, and the youngest brother was my husband who supported me through college.". My husband is very hardworking and earned everything from scratch. It is mostly due to him that we have today's day.
"My family conditions are better than my husband's. However, in order to marry him, I had some trouble with my family. In the first few years of my marriage, I had no contact with them.". My husband has always had a problem with this. He feels that my family despises him, and he also takes a gamble and must make some achievements for others to see.
In 2009, my husband started partnering with others to do business. His sales contacts in the company, as well as the things he learned from his previous boss, came in handy. He got off to a surprisingly smooth start, and his husband earned his first barrel of rich gold in his life. From then on, I lost control and devoted myself to my career. I reminded him that there are risks in business and told him to be conservative, but he was so profitable that he couldn't even listen. The next year, the partner took the money and ran away, leaving a pile of mess and debts waiting for his husband to clean up. During that period, we had the most difficult time. My husband was so angry that he suffered from stomach and liver diseases, and he was hospitalized in succession. It was me who accompanied him, relieved him, comforted him, and walked through this period together. I was also at that time, begging for no way to return to my mother's home. My parents, who were parents, lent us emergency fund turnover.
After my husband carried through that period, he became more calm and less aggressive in his work. Moreover, he had the experience of that failure. He insisted on taking control of himself and no longer handing over the flow of funds to others. I also resigned and began to help him take care of some of the company's affairs.
With so much talk, I want to say that looking back at our journey, it was really not easy. Both of us had shared difficulties and shared blessings. Even the strong winds and waves failed to defeat us, putting our marriage to a halt. However, I didn't expect that because of the appearance of that woman, my husband and I now regard each other as enemies.
My husband doesn't admit that she is a junior. That woman was recruited by her husband into the company, and her business skills are indeed good. However, I instinctively dislike her and feel that this person is not decent. She dresses very provocatively. In winter, she should open the collar of her coat and wear a low cut coat. Every day, she makes up heavily and smells of perfume. As far as I know, few women in the company look at her favorably, while men hold her in their hands. My husband also likes her very much and always takes her with him when it comes to important projects. In July of this year, in a bidding process, my husband and a group of his company's employees worked overtime for more than ten days without sleep. Finally, he took her to attend the bidding process, and the bidding was successful. My husband counted the credit on the woman. After that, the woman's eyes were even less open to others, even me, without any respect.
In August and September, there was a problem with the admission to the school that our child had contacted. I rushed to deal with the matter and didn't go home much for more than half a month. However, after the matter was completed, I found that my husband didn't even go home during my absence. He stayed in the hotel, and the woman also opened a room in that hotel during that time. And the two people have the same caliber. When discussing projects, the company does have projects, but what projects need to be discussed day and night, and are they discussed separately by two people?
This is clearly an infidelity, looking for an excuse to have a tryst, but my husband still refuses to admit it, saying that nothing has happened at all. It's also because I suspect that there is a dark ghost and I have nothing to do with it. I really think they both treat me like a fool, especially if the woman looks at me with a clear winner's attitude. Did she mess with my man and deceive me? "But my husband just doesn't admit or admit that he was wrong, let alone expel her.".
"For this matter, the quarrel has been going on for nearly three months without any results. My husband always says that if he gets bored, he will divorce.". Why should I get divorced? Did divorce make him and that woman happy? "I want to know the truth now, so I want him to give me an explanation. We are couples in need, and we couldn't just take care of those in the past. He used to have only me with him in the past, and in the future, he can only have me with him, not someone else. Can the teacher give me some tips?"?
Answer:
Acknowledging marital infidelity means assuming corresponding responsibilities, including compensation for divorce. Of course, your goal is to maintain your marriage and separate the third party, which is not to be considered for the time being. "However, it is better for you to keep a copy of the evidence of his infidelity. After all, everything must be prepared with both hands.".
As for why didn't he admit his mistake? If you think about it for a moment, you can understand that a strong person like him would like to have a handle on your hand and be criticized by you? I can see that you are also a person with great ideas, otherwise you wouldn't be so determined to survive when life is hit hard. Two powerful people live together for a long time, and many conflicts and frictions arise. "In times of common adversity, you will not fight each other head-on, but in times of calm, you will inevitably encounter the wheat with the tip of a needle.". At this moment, a woman who follows him, worships him, and admires him appears, and your emotional relationship becomes dangerous.
Why do all the men in the company have a crush on that woman? It shows that she understands men's psychology too well, understands what men need, and understands how to express it that will make men happy. Women will not have a desire to be close to this overly explicit "universal fan", and women will maintain vigilance and vigilance and stay away from such "universal fan". And what about her? She doesn't need the friendship between women either. With a little flirtation, she can benefit from the pile of men. If you can now basically determine that her target is your husband, then you need to further clarify what she wants from your husband? Then judge how to break her mind. Just be careful not to ask too much from her. Some mistresses perform various tricks when they meet their husbands, commit suicide when they have children, and don't stop until they reach their goals. Don't simply assume that a sum of money can kill the mistress. Some women would rather be scolded than become lovers, and they value the added value that a man can bring to her, such as status, such as vision.