Post Date April, 15 2023
1 Keyword: What to do if someone touches my bottom line
Q: # Crow Love Question # Crow is Big. I read your book about the law of energy rebound, saying that others are mocking me and I am smiling. I have a question about this. If someone touches my bottom line, what should I do?
Answer: Anyone should have their own principles and bottom line. If you touch the bottom line, then you have a reason to shine your sword. However, before shining the sword, you need to consider whether breaking the relationship structure with those who violate your bottom line will have a negative impact on you, or how broad the impact is, which is also a question that you need to consider.
2 keywords: not knowing if you are a spare tire
Q: Crow Da Da, I recently met a girl on WeChat who had a good chat before the appointment and was a bit intimate. However, after the first appointment, the WeChat chat became relatively cold and we could also make an appointment later. She also wanted to go out with me to play something else, but during the second appointment, she wanted to hold hands and was rejected. Do I think she treated me as a spare tire meal ticket? What should I do? Give up or continue?
Answer: Firstly, the girl's willingness to continue dating you indicates that she continues to maintain interest in you.
Secondly, the girl refuses to hold hands with you because she thinks it would make her look casual. Why are you holding hands with her boyfriend? So at this point, you need to use the behaviors and words that girls show favoritism towards you to imply that the other party likes you. Then, after the girl's rebuttal period and silence period, you can establish a romantic relationship, and once established, holding hands becomes very normal.
3 keywords: Girlfriend always likes to keep in touch with her ex boyfriend
Q: # Crow loves to answer questions # Crow is big, and her girlfriend always keeps in touch with her previous two boyfriends. I expressed my concern and deleted her ex boyfriend's WeChat QQ, but it wasn't long before I added it again. She said they were just ordinary friends now, and I was very angry and proposed to break up, but she cried on the blanket and made the blanket wet. I couldn't understand her psychological state. Please confess, she is still young, only 19 years old.
Answer: To make a point, a woman's contribution to each boyfriend is different. She is reluctant to delete the previous two terms, which only indicates that this girl's contribution to you has not exceeded the previous two terms.
Therefore, in her heart, due to the objective proportion of investment, you cannot occupy the first position. Don't be sensitive at this time, because it's not because you want her to delete her that you will break off the relationship with those two people. What you need to do is constantly increase the investment of girls in you, because investment is not deceitful. Moreover, as a man, you need to show a bit of confidence. Your concern for the previous two terms only indicates a lack of inner security.
4 keywords; Embarrassing relationship with the girl who used to like her
Q: # Crow Love Question # Hello mentor, there was once a girl who silently liked me for a long time. However, during that time, I had a girlfriend and had two new ones. We have been getting along very well as best friends. I had doubts about her leaving messages, chatting with me, and buying books for me before, but she always emphasized that we are good best friends, so I believe in her, Last night, I asked her if she liked me, and she said she used to. I said if I didn't have a girlfriend at that time, I would pursue you. What she said to me was that she had emphasized it all the time, mentor. Please help, our relationship is very awkward now.
Answer: Women won't always like a man, and from your description, girls are likely to have lost interest in you at the moment. So if you want to get this girl now, you can only start with secondary attraction, learn more about this girl's information, favorite topics and things, display more things that the girl likes in your circle of friends, and display more topics that the girl likes in your conversations with the girl. After the second attraction is successful, we can suggest that she likes us.
