My boyfriend's fiancee came to provoke me. I don't know if I should continue after knowing the truth

My boyfriend and I began to fall in love at the beginning of 2015. After less than half a year, we cohabited. Like husband and wife, they cook after work every day, bask in their circle of friends and show their love. I dreamed that one day I could marry him, have children and live a stable life. This year, I proposed to go home with him to meet my parents. I can't stand it. My parents have been urging me to get married. He was a little reluctant to cover up. I began to think that he was too shy to meet my parents. Who knows, he has a fiancee in his family.

I learned his secret only when I found his other mobile phone by accident. He never called my family in front of me. On New Year's Day, I reminded him to call his family to comfort him. He always made a hasty decision. In fact, he also has a mobile phone, which is clearly marked with the phone number of "father, mother, and the so-called fiancee". He always uses another mobile phone to contact his family. I really can't understand why he did it in such a deliberate way? I have no money and no family background. What can he get with me? Destroyed his own character, also ruined my youth.

I spent a year together day and night. When the truth came to light, I was completely blinded. My boyfriend, who has always been the object of my marriage, turned out to be a philanderer with two legs. In the end, I was calm and talked a lot with him. I checked the details carefully. I felt sad that I had become a third party for no reason. He said that he was not satisfied with the girl in his family, and did not dare to disobey his parents' wishes. The daughter-in-law was chosen by them, and the other family had a background. He once talked back to his parents about this matter, and his father's blood pressure rose in anger, and he was hospitalized. He had to compromise and came to work in this city with his luggage on his back in anger. He met me and couldn't help falling in love with me.

He gave me his mobile phone and opened his other WeChat. Indeed, he and his fiancee chat like strangers. Although they have been engaged for more than a year, their chat content is not as much as ours for a week. I was very ambivalent. He knew that I was not the kind of girl who tried to compromise. He also asked me to give him time to deal with this matter. It tickles my teeth to think of him cheating me like this. After thinking for many days, I convinced myself that I agreed to give him time.

In the months after the year, I heard him arguing with his parents and asking for his divorce. But his parents didn't agree. I could imagine his parents' blushing face through the phone. Even today, he still can't get rid of the marriage arranged by his family. He didn't dare to mention me to his parents. He was worried that my existence would irritate his parents even more. But when can I end up sitting in the middle of nowhere? What should I do? Should I continue?

Reply from the consultant:

He clearly knows that he has a master of famous flowers and wants to provoke you. A word "can't help but" moves you. He has kept it from you for so long. Although you hate it in your heart, you don't want to leave. You can only say that you have been completely conquered by him. Love may be emotional most of the time, but sometimes we should also treat problems rationally. You choose to trust him, but his efficiency is not good. In fact, the real stumbling block in his heart is not his fiancee, but his parents.

He didn't dare to mention your existence, and subconsciously didn't want to stimulate his parents, because a previous revolt had led to his father's hospitalization, which was a shadow in his heart. However, anything that wants to achieve its goal must have certain sacrifices. If he drags on like this, he can't solve the problem. In the end, it will only make you fall into more trouble. The contradiction between you will also deepen. The final dispersion is inevitable.

Please remember that cowardice and cowardice will only make things worse. If he is determined to be with you, he should overcome his psychological barriers and go to his fiancee to negotiate first. Once they have reached an agreement, it is useless for his parents to press him hard. It is useless to resist with parents in such a tentative tone. If you don't have the courage, I suggest you break up with him earlier.