I fell in love with my colleague in the company, who first pursued me, but he didn't completely break up with his former partner and then came back with me. At that time, I didn't know. Later, the woman came from outside to find him. He went to pick her up in the middle of the night and promised to come back at twelve o'clock, but she didn't come back. I impulsively ran over!
He returned home with me and promised me that he would make it clear to her and be good with me! But that woman sends him WeChat and calls him every day. After a week, the woman came again! He told me to give him two days, and there will definitely be no news from her after two days.
I gave it for two days, they were together for two days and two nights, leaving me to bear the pain alone! After returning, he told me to contact me again for the last time, but he is still in contact now, and I feel that he is becoming increasingly indifferent to me. I want to break up, but before I got along with him, he knew that I had been deeply hurt by my ex boyfriend and hadn't let go yet. Now that I've been hurt by him again, am I too foolish? I feel very uncomfortable now, please help me! thank you.
reply:
To be honest, it's just that you're too foolish yourself. Perhaps this man just wants to play with you, it's like being a big emotional scammer. It's just that you were kept in his dark at first, but later it was discovered that he deliberately deceived you. How can you trust him again and again? Isn't this asking for trouble?
You have already been hurt by your ex boyfriend. As someone who has had emotional experiences, why don't you learn from them and accumulate some knowledge of people? So, in the future, never let yourself be harmed in a relationship for nothing. You should learn to grow, face every relationship with a mature attitude, and not easily immerse yourself in it. Also, don't expect others to pity you or sympathize with you. It's good that others don't hurt you when you're vulnerable. So, I advise all those who are feeling down in their relationships not to blindly enter the next relationship before they have recovered from their emotional hurt, as you can easily choose the wrong person.
In fact, when it comes to relationships, no one can truly help you, only oneself can help oneself.
WeChat Letter:
Hello! My husband and I went through countless hardships to be together. At that time, his family was very poor, and after more than ten years of hard work, we are now living very well. In August, we had a big argument over something and got divorced. He has always been very kind to me and also to my family. After the divorce, I want to cut him off completely. He's very angry because he's too old to interact with me. Every day, I send V letters to you. What should I do?
Now that I am in my hometown, he is still running our previous store. I have a son who told him that it is possible for us to have a good life, but he didn't answer. After I have learned my driver's license, he talks to me every day on V-mail. What do you mean by that?
reply:
For couples who used to endure hardships and share hardships, it's not easy to come all the way to this day. Therefore, please don't give up this relationship easily, and don't easily hurt it.
If you all admit that he has always been very kind to you and your family, it means that you also recognize and care about him in your heart, and only chose to divorce on impulse. In fact, it is not rational to divorce just because of a quarrel without involving principles and bottom line issues.
Now, your ex husband chats with you every day and doesn't give up on getting in touch with you. Of course, he doesn't want to give up this relationship. Therefore, if you feel that this contact with him is not harassment but expectation, then it is recommended that you remarry. After all, you still have a common child, why bother to let each other suffer from the family breakdown and family separation for the rest of their lives for a moment of restraint. Think about it!