Post Date April, 15 2023
If the relationship between the sexes is not good, sexual life will not be good. The sexual interests of men and women can have chemical effects due to significant differences in their physiological structures. Only by accepting such differences and adjusting their expectations and attitudes can they overcome any differences in sexual interests and promote good marital relationships.
The dispute over gender relations is not about who wins or loses, but rather about whether an objective neutral point can be found to solve the problem. You are happy, I am happy, is the most positive attitude.
Who has the greatest sexual interest in both sexes? How to improve each other's sexual interest?
It is normal for both sexes to have different requirements and expectations for sexual interest, with highs and lows. Male sexual interests are more urgent, non distracting, targeted, focused, and easy to satisfy during sexual life. Women's sexual interests are often considered to be more dispersed and urgently require emotional intimacy. The sexual difference between the sexes is not in quantity, but in quality.
Men and women can have the same high sexual interest, but generally men have higher sexual interest than women, which is due to the influence of hormones and the stimulation of the acquired environment.
Women want romance, men want practicality, and the structure of sexual interest is quite different. Sexual interest actually originates from the brain, not technology. It is necessary to withdraw from daily life, concentrate on sex, or use sexual fantasies to generate sexual interest.
Ways to improve women's sexual interest: romantic actions (such as sending cards, flowers, gifts, compliments), more communication and intimacy, satisfying emotional needs, partners willing to spend quality time together, and reducing disputes.
The methods for promoting male sexual interest are more dramatic and sudden.
Male impulses take only 3 seconds, while women need to hug for 15 to 20 minutes to feel them.
How much sex is enough?
Medical journal surveys show that one-third of couples have two or three visits per month. Another survey showed that one third of couples have not had sex for a long time, or once every two months. These couples are under the age of 38.
Both sexes have different interests in sex, such as diet. It is best to adopt a "you ok, I also ok" attitude.
"True sexual compatibility does not mean that the sexual interests of both sexes are consistent, but rather that they have the same expectations for sexual interests or have the same views on what constitutes normal/abnormal sexual interests.". Despite differences in sexual interest levels, as long as expectations and attitudes are the same, any gap in sexual interest can be overcome.
What are the most common sexual issues complained about by men and women?
Men often feel that sex is not enough and expect more. At the same time, they are worried that their sexual performance will not be as expected by their wives, and they will gradually lose their sexual interest.
Women complain about insufficient communication with their husbands and expect more emotional communication and intimacy. The more women speak, the stronger their desire to want. Women can speak 12000 words a day, while men can only speak 4000 words a day.
For men, sex=love; In the eyes of women, love=emotional communication and intimacy.
