Post Date July, 25 2023
The disharmony in most couples' sexual lives is mostly due to psychological barriers and other reasons, especially women who care more about emotions. In addition, there may be some misconceptions between the two parties regarding sexual concepts, which can lead to conflicts and conflicts in their actions. So, what misconceptions do men have about sexual life?
Firstly, overemphasizing the frequency and frequency of sexual activity
Men have a misconception that the more sex they have, the more they can maintain their masculinity, and their wives will be more satisfied and happy. If the frequency is too low, it will be considered as not being masculine enough, but this understanding is actually wrong. Compared to sexual life, women actually pay more attention to emotional communication and high-quality sexual life, rather than the number of times. When men reach the age of 30 to 35, they realize that there have been some changes in their physiology, sometimes they can't do enough and can only change quantity to ensure quality.
Men cannot ignore their wives' emotional needs, simplify their sexual life, and deny the importance of quality of sexual life. If a man excessively pursues quantity, it will increase his psychological burden. When a person reaches a certain age and cannot maintain a certain frequency, he will feel that he is no longer strong, and a great psychological burden will arise. So, men must change their misconceptions. High quality is more important than high frequency. The true charm of men lies in maturity and understanding, and they pay more attention to their personal cultivation. Maintaining high-quality sexual life is more conducive to the harmony and happiness of marital life.
Secondly, emphasize the use of sexual techniques
Using some techniques in sexual life will be beneficial for experiencing different pleasures. However, there should be a tacit understanding between spouses and both parties should be voluntary, so as not to cause psychological harm. Moreover, the relationship between couples must be good, and they must maintain a consistent understanding of sexual skills. The techniques used should be scientific and healthy, otherwise the techniques may cause physical and mental harm. If the cognition and emotions between couples are not consistent, sexual skills themselves cannot create effective communication and caring emotions. So it doesn't actually require too much sexual skills, which actually leads to emotional apathy and aversion to sexual life between couples. The best sexual technique is actually spiritual communication, which gives the other person care, admiration, and sincere communication rather than expressing sexual skills.
Thirdly, a narrow understanding of sexual life
In sexual life, men ultimately need to ejaculate, but this is not the whole of sexual life. Sexual life is the process of expressing love. When engaging in sexual activity, it is important to be fully prepared, as achieving maximum satisfaction largely depends on whether the preparation stage is sufficient. Some husbands only prioritize their own needs, so they appear too eager and rough. When the wife has not yet fully aroused their enthusiasm, it has already ended hastily. Sexual activity must have a full understanding of each other, and it is a process of experiencing love, not to complete a task. A harmonious sexual life is beneficial for the happiness of marriage.
The above is all about the misconceptions that men have in sexual life. Sexual activity is not important in terms of frequency and frequency, as high-quality sexual activity is beneficial for the emotional relationship between couples. There is no need to place too much emphasis on sexual skills in sexual life. Emotional communication is the foundation of high-quality sexual life.
