1. To be troublesome
"An affair is a complex and systematic project that encompasses everything from economy to politics to culture. There is no need for lies and deceit. Having an affair is like engaging in diplomacy. Playing balance requires flawless play, courting both sides, and being flexible in all aspects. Everyday life is like fighting a war. There is a real lack of skills and limited time, and people with weak hearts cannot bear it. It is extremely troublesome. It is better to muddle through.". Lazy men often belong here.
2. Insufficient self conditions
Affair is a luxury consumption, and not every married man has enough capital and charm to make other women willing to be a third party. Even if a mediocre man is salivating, he can only "hold his head high and aspire to it.". "They are not unwilling, they just cannot. Whenever a cockerel dog ascends to heaven, it will definitely be" expensive and easy to make, rich and easy to wife. "". The so-called "honest men" mostly belong to this category.
3. A thief's heart makes no thief's courage
An affair is an "emerald" in a Swiss bank, like Zeta Jones in "The Trap of the Sky". Anyone who has courage and wisdom should not dare to steal the sky and change the pillars. Those who want to have an affair think of the serious consequences - their family is ruined, their wives and children are separated, their future is lost, their reputation is notorious "If the opportunity cost is too high, we have to hold back and stay away.". Most rational men belong here.
4. The couple's feelings are sincere
In fact, this reason is somewhat farfetched. Don't believe the crocodile tears of an extramarital man. They will make a mess of their marriage life, thereby gaining sympathy and understanding. In fact, many men clearly have a happy marriage and family, but they tend to make waves on the ground. Therefore, women must not suffer from infantile diseases, thinking that an affair will only encounter someone else's husband, while their own husband is an insulator.