Some people say that men should be broad-minded, broad-minded and tolerant of everything. However, men's hearts are also very small, because there is only one place for a woman who really loves in a man's heart. Today, let's talk about the unforgettable feelings of a man's life.
1. The lover in the dream
In May this year, Xiao Chen said that in his mind, there was always a perfect woman: beautiful hair, beautiful eyes, gentle and graceful... But at the age of nearly 30, he never met such a woman, so he refused to talk about love lightly.
Xiao Chen also said that although there are also women who are affectionate and loyal to themselves and have some good feelings for them, they are not willing to accept their feelings at this point. They are afraid of missing the time of meeting the dreamer, so they wait and wait, and their parents urge them to marry, and their friends are worried, which makes a group of people unhappy, and makes them feel at a loss. They do not know whether waiting can bring about a successful outcome, let alone whether the so-called dreamer really exists.
In fact, before meeting a lover, both men and women will inevitably idealize the lover and set rules according to the model they want. However, as the Internet said, the ideal is very full and the reality is very skinny. If you blindly pursue the lover like the dream lover, the result is more likely to disappoint or even despair. After all, the perfect person in the world is not easy to find, so when you meet the right person, you will have a feeling of heart, and then love well.
2. Unforgettable first love
Nalan said, "If life is only like the first sight, what is the sad autumn wind painting fan. Also beautiful is first love.
The author once ran into a man who was 32 years old and his girlfriend was 30 years old. After two years of love, I still don't want to get married. I ask the reason why I want to be with my first girlfriend or my first girlfriend. I am with my current girlfriend only because she is a very good woman and she is very attentive to herself. In the Absolute 100 case consultation, there were also many confused letters from women complaining that their boyfriends didn't pay enough attention to themselves, but they knew everything about their ex-girlfriends.
First love often happens at the beginning of love. At that time, the feelings are simple and beautiful. Most men also use their heart to spoil the women around them. However, once separated, there are many regrets, and it is unavoidable to remember. That's why some people say that once you love, you can't love again. Only then did someone say that true love is only once. Because men become more and more rational after entering society, and more energy and mind are put on fighting for their careers. Even if they love, it is difficult to have the care and romantic warmth of their lovers when they are young. At this time, what he needs more may be a woman who loves him, understands him and forgives him.
3. Love each other
Because of marriage, men also have responsibilities and obligations.
Home is a harbor for men and a warm light for men when they come back from work. Women, however, have become the person who lives in the heart of men. They manage the housework for him, have children for him, and attach thick ink and fireworks to his charming face. The days of mutual affection are light and shallow. Men know that women have paid hard for themselves, and attach more to their small home.
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)