Men with a bad mentality are prone to weakness. They should never have these five negative emotions before having sex

There are five psychological states that must not be present before sexual intercourse. Men and women should not have psychological pressure during sexual intercourse. They should learn to relax, enjoy, integrate into emotions, and have sexual desire for each other, in order to have a beautiful sexual experience. Let's take a look at the 5 psychological states that must not be present before sexual intercourse.

5 psychological states that must not exist before sexual intercourse

1. Care about image

Women love beauty very much, and the saying goes, 'A female guard who is pleasing to oneself has a beautiful appearance'. However, many women who care too much about their appearance during sex can actually affect their partner's sexual activity, and sometimes entering sex more roughly can make men feel more at ease.

I feel that many women are worried that their appearance during sex or orgasm may not be attractive enough, or that they may say inappropriate things or behave in an inappropriate manner, while always paying attention to maintaining their image. Although this worry is unnecessary, it is common for many women.

You should know that sex should be passionate and passionate, and in the eyes of the other party, you are the most beautiful when fully engaged, while being coy can only make the other party feel disappointed.

2. Passive acceptance

Most people believe that men should dominate the trend of sexual intercourse between two people, and many couples are basically driven by the man when having sex.

If one shows too much initiative and enthusiasm, they will be perceived by the other party as licentious and frivolous. So, we had to adopt a cooperative attitude. This invisibly pleasing mentality can cause one's own psychological tension, inability to relax and engage, and thus unable to experience the beautiful feelings of peak moments.

3. Feeling bad

When you're in a bad mood, you can't do anything well, not just sex. There are many couples who are at odds in their daily lives and naturally do not fuse better during sex.

Many couples have just finished arguing here, and their emotions are still in an extremely bad and resentful state, so their husbands have proposed to "get intimate". Or if there is a rift in each other's emotions, such as suspicion, distrust, or even disgust towards them, these negative emotions will naturally affect the quality of your sexual intercourse, and may even make you feel even worse about them, leading to increasing resentment between both parties.

4. Excessive worry

This kind of worry is actually a manifestation of lack of confidence. It's really thinking too much. No matter how skillful sex is, the most important trick is actually nature.

Compared to men, women do not have many skills in sexual intercourse, so they always worry about not performing well enough and not being able to satisfy the other party during sexual intercourse.

And this kind of worry makes it impossible to engage in sexual activity, and it also makes orgasm completely distant. Moreover, this anxiety mentality can affect your attitude towards sexual life and bring discomfort such as physical pain.

5. Fear of pregnancy

Many people still don't like to wear condoms during sex. They go straight to battle and use coitus interruptus to prevent pregnancy. This causes both parties to focus on coitus interruptus when the orgasm comes, and tension and fear will inhibit the orgasm reflex, resulting in orgasmic dysfunction or frigidity.

So, everyone still wears condoms to make sex more reassuring and fulfilling.

If you want to have an orgasm, you must try your best to avoid the above five factors and take corresponding measures to bring each other closer to orgasm.