When a general man is unfaithful for the first time or attracted by a woman outside of marriage, the realm he pursues is more or less emotional.
Even if they only start from the contact on the bed, they will have some feelings later, or they will cheat themselves that they are still going to this step for the sake of feelings, because this can reduce the moral pressure of a man. After all, not all men can face the naked truth that they are cheating for the pleasure of the body.
They talk about feelings and hide the body's desire in the coat of feelings. Even if you pick up clothes from each other as soon as you meet, don't forget to say a few words "I love you" to numb each other's uneasy hearts. They can also resist the impulse of their bodies and wait for each other to enter the state slowly. They can warm up their lovers' psychology and physiology with emotional expression, just as they are patiently frying fish in a pot. Only the patient can get the best food. Let the lover offer his body automatically. I also think that the man is really a modest gentleman.
There will also be pure feelings, it is really like a person, but across the fence of marriage. However, if it is limited to ideological liking, it will not affect real life, and it is not necessary to drag the other party into the tangled relationship of extramarital love. Only in this way may the word "love" come into being, otherwise, it will be a memorial archway erected for yourself.