Firstly, identifying whether the other party is a virgin: In modern society, although virginity is not a commendatory term, almost every man hopes to marry himself as a virgin, and there are still many men with a virgin complex. Based on this complex, to ensure that they can find a virgin to go home, some men will disregard the repeated opposition and rejection of their female partner, rack their brains and demand "trial and error". If the other party is a virgin, then everyone will be happy and dispel their worries before marriage; If you try not to be a virgin, you can make plans again or even avoid breaking up. In short, they are not allowed to take any risks by marrying a non virgin and returning home. The more open society is, the fewer virgins there are, the more they want to take this "reassuring pill".
Secondly, it is driven by interest and impatience: it has always been believed that men who have not experienced sexual activity are mostly not considered mature. Because they cannot feel how a woman should be caressed by a man through some detailed feelings and communication. This kind of caressing is either done or not done, it is indulgent or patient, it is gentle or savage. For a woman who has not married you and has not yet made up her mind or is unwilling to give her body to you, perhaps it can only be caressing, understanding, and patience.
Thirdly, I believe that only by giving it to him can I truly love him: to be honest, I still cannot understand the popular misconception on the internet that if I love him, I will give it to him. So I couldn't help but ask: Is it possible that a woman who falls in love with a man must give her body to him, and this kind of giving must be before marriage, before he can give her any guarantee at all? I'm afraid this kind of statement is neither logical nor meaningful, right? There is no love without reason in the world, let alone giving without reason.
Fourthly, testing sexual harmony after marriage: In real life, although there may seem to be many reasons for a marriage's failure, more than half of them are related to the lack of sexual harmony. So, on this level, I'm not too opposed to men asking for premarital sex. Unfortunately, there are not many men in real life who can have such thoughts purely. They may value the pleasure of their own sexual behavior more. As for whether women can obtain happiness, they often do not consider it. Their so-called test of sexual harmony after marriage mostly comes from personal feelings.
Fifthly, only for desire, there is no love at all: as for this last reason, I don't want to talk too much, because it doesn't even have the slightest technical content. Simply put, it is playing with women and using marriage as bait to deceive you into sleeping with them. As for the love that frequently springs out of these men's mouths, it can make people laugh their teeth out, not only infecting the environment, but also tarnishing the Holy Spirit. If a woman wants to believe these lies, she can only take it for herself.
A warm tip from the psychological channel: Now, female friends should have a comprehensive understanding of men's psychology of asking for premarital sex. The editor is a traditional person, so it is recommended that female friends keep themselves clean and not easily sacrifice themselves for men.