Thought that his lofty ideals could be realized
Even if you are old and young, you can't do anything. You have a series of falls, and you think you haven't got a chance. If you have a chance, you will be able to make rapid progress. Sitting in the tavern and drinking "bartender" is actually a big soap bubble, and it is not known to others.
Think men are not bad, women do not love
In fact, it is a pure daydream, but some men still do it. What's more annoying is that if you really want to be bad, you should be completely bad and scare away women. But there are many men who want to learn bad but don't like to learn bad, or who are not as bad as the bad, and they cheat women into tears of sympathy.
I thought I could marry a rich girl and become a dragon
The "big money" thing is also popular among some uneducated young men nowadays, who want to make a fortune overnight with women's pomegranate skirts. I don't know that the "soft rice" is also not delicious. It needs a pair of "natural beauty". Sometimes when you become a horse, you will never turn over.
I think I climb that mountain higher than this one
Such a man will never know that there are people outside the world. Sometimes, he simply hides his ears and steals the bell. They treat their career, love, women, and so on. When they climb this mountain, they feel that the mountain is high. The result of discontent is that you are tired to death and don't get any truth.
Think women are cheap
Men with such ideas deserve to be troubled by some powerful women. In terms of emotion, men are no stronger than women. In fact, there are more men who speak harshly and more women who do so. Get women who love themselves to fight back, is not it men who are cheap?
Thought he would never be old
Men always describe women over 40 as "bean curd dregs". In fact, men over 40 are sometimes not as good as bean curd dregs either physically or psychologically. Do you think it's not old to have young women around you? When you want to prove something, you are old.
Think of friends as brothers and women as clothes
This is still the idea of many men at present. They value friendship more than their parents and wives. If it is true friendship, you should cherish it, but it is your wife who stays with you every day. Don't be without Liu Bei's good luck, but just learn from him to throw away his wife. How many do you think you can have?
Thought that even when he was old, he would still be loved by young women
Even if there is such a thing, it is mostly for the sake of money. Don't naive think that you are an "old playboy". In fact, in the end, you can't afford it. Money can never buy real feelings, and then you are really no longer young. It's time to think about old age.
Think lovers are better than wives
This is the same as the joke that "mice are afraid of cats, which is pure rumor", but some men are obsessed. A lover is just a painting. It is cold to put on your body and a nightmare to hang on the wall. Don't rush up without knowing it. It will be your wife who will help you collect the body.
I thought I didn't have what I said above, and then I swore
In fact, some naive ideas are not terrible. Who hasn't been naive? The terrible thing is that I don't think it is childish all the time, and I don't change it until I am seventy or eighty, and I can't listen to any different opinions. It is a sin to hurt others more, and it will be silly to hurt yourself more.
In fact, men are more childish than women, because men always have the idea that they are the whole day. Who knows that childishness and overbearing stubbornness will damage your physical and mental health. Don't think that you can cheat women if you can't earn money, and you can become a thinker if you can't do something. When you are old, you are still a big fan. Women will always take you seriously. Only when you are down-to-earth can you go further, and only when you give sincerely can you get true love. In this era, heroes can still be achieved. The key is to straighten the backbone before being a man, and not give up dignity and responsibility. Men, please be independent, strong and self-respect.
A truly mature man can not only take on the essence of the sun and the moon, but also embrace the yellow flowers at his feet.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)