Post Date April, 15 2023
Sexual life is the product of a couple's emotions, and harmonious sexual life can promote their emotions, while good marital relationships can lead to the desire for sexual life. The two complement each other. May all lovers in the world eventually become married, and may all lovers have a happy sexual life.
What to do with newly married premature ejaculation? The wedding night is the night when sex begins. Some bridegrooms often experience premature ejaculation on their wedding night or for a period of time thereafter. They feel anxious and depressed about it, and worry about it during their next sexual encounter. They are afraid that premature ejaculation may cause unhappiness in their "marital life" and affect their relationships. In fact, most premature ejaculation is caused by psychological factors, and most of it is a temporary phenomenon. The negative psychology of anxiety, worry, and depression mentioned above is not only unnecessary, but also increases the chance of premature ejaculation. So, what happens after premature ejaculation? Feihua's experts will answer for you.
First, make preparations first, and don't make love for it.
A simple sexual life can only play a role in completing tasks, so it is very important to prepare well before having sex. There are various forms of preparation work, such as affectionate conversations, listening to affectionate soft music, touching "sexual sensitive areas", engaging in emotional nurturing, and engaging in intimate actions, which can lead to sexual impulses on both sides. Having sex at this time can easily lead to success.
Secondly, it is necessary to adjust the different sexual cycles of men and women.
The cycle of emergence and regression of sexual excitement varies between men and women. Generally speaking, men's sexual desire appears faster, manifested as strong and vigorous, while women's sexual desire starts slowly and to a lesser extent. "The onset of sexual excitement in men is sudden, and within 2 to 5 minutes, they quickly enter orgasm and ejaculate, with rapid resolution. In women, sexual excitement appears slower, lasts longer, and subsides slowly.". Men's libido is concentrated on the sexual organs earlier and thus satisfied, while women's libido is slower to focus on the sexual organs. Sexual desire is not only satisfied on the sexual organs, but also requires verbal and psychological caress and comfort.
In many couples, the sexual impulse of the husband is already quite strong, while the sexual impulse of the wife is delayed or even indifferent; "The husband's ejaculation ends and the penis contracts, but the wife wants local stimulation.". "Due to not mastering each other's sexual cycle rules, not eliminating the" time difference "and" inconsistent pace "of sexual activity, disharmonious sexual life has arisen.".
To prevent these situations from occurring, it is necessary to fully recognize the different sexual cycles of "faster men and slower women", and do a good job of sexual induction to make the wife's sexual impulse come faster. Once the husband's orgasm has passed and the wife's orgasm has just begun, the husband should adopt caressing methods to satisfy the wife on the other hand. Because the wife's sexual desire is widespread, unlike the husband, who is limited to only the sexual organs. The sexual union between husband and wife is short lived, and the spiritual happiness that two people experience from it is profound and lasting.
In addition, a husband can also use the help of external objects to achieve physical synchronization between himself and his wife. The TOR Tol 2 produced by LELO is very suitable for newly married couples. It can restrain the penis, delay early ejaculation, and is harmless to health. It allows the husband to have longer periods of activity to stimulate his wife's sexual desire.
Third, have sexual imagination.
Don't just have sex for the sake of sex, and have sexual imagination in the process of sexual activity. If you imagine yourself being in love with the "Prince Charming" or "Beautiful Princess," you can achieve sexual satisfaction. Sexual imagination can only be meditated, not expressed. Otherwise, not only can it not achieve a happy sexual life, but on the contrary, it can also lead to emotional breakdown.
Fourth, both spouses should play the leading role.
Most wives blame their husbands for their inability to achieve orgasms. In fact, the key to achieving orgasm is oneself. In this regard, it is easier for a husband to do so. However, as a wife, she is often influenced by cultural practices and has been in a passive position during the sexual life process, not playing the leading role, not entering the "role", and naturally cannot obtain a satisfactory sexual life experience. Therefore, the woman needs to play the leading role even more.
