Post Date April, 15 2023
In many cases, it is almost natural for men to tolerate women. In addition to being considerate, it is also the most necessary element to capture women.
Say "It's OK" on your mouth, but in your heart
So the frequency of men saying "it doesn't matter" in front of women must be far more than the number of times they care too much, so as not to be said that they are petty, or that they are said that they are not at all useful. However, what men say doesn't matter. Is it really from the heart? For the following five things, men often don't really care about them, but for some reasons, they have to pretend that it doesn't matter.
Super care # 1 about your appearance and posture
This is very controversial, because nine out of ten men will say "it doesn't matter" when questioned about women, except for those who are cheap. But what should I say? Men are absolutely visual animals. They must have their own standards for beauty. But if they really want to reach that standard, they are too strict for girls.
So when a man says "it doesn't matter", what he cares about is not only your appearance, but your mood. Therefore, when every man is asked such a question, "Never mind" is definitely the safest answer. Whether it is the contrast before and after makeup or the change of posture, since there are many differences, men will not completely fail to notice. But he knows that it is no use to care about it. And if he speaks the truth, he will be considered as a "superficial man who only looks at his face". It's better not to say it.
Super care # 2 about your past love history
The past of lovers, regardless of men and women, is a thing of the past. The past is a ghost! If you really don't mind, it's a big problem. Not to mention, in case your love history is so magnificent or endless, and then he knows it more than once. A man's comparative attitude. If you want him not to care, it's better to regret not talking to him too much. At this point, the man said "it doesn't matter", it's just a mask of pretending to be open-minded.
Overcare # 3 about what you did wrong
When we first got together, each other's small shortcomings were harmless. But over time, they are more and more willing to be frank with each other, and you are no longer shy of exposing your shortcomings and start to make progress. However, men always tolerate these shortcomings because of the past. Now, if you pick out faults, you will definitely be questioned whether they do not love.
When you apologize for being spoiled, I believe that men will only say "it's okay", but... is it really okay? In fact, it doesn't matter at first, but just because you don't change it, the wood that has been drilled for a long time will also catch fire. If you are conscious of your own shortcomings but go your own way, those "don't matter" will definitely matter one day.
I care too much about the "little things" you always say "it doesn't matter" in # 4
On some occasions, women always think preconceived: Why do you care about men? For example, you teased his sister before Taobao, or made a joke that he didn't like, or even put your good habits into his bad habits... When he was unhappy, you would remark "It doesn't matter". Since it doesn't matter what you say, can he argue with you? Say "it doesn't matter", just don't want to fight with you. If you still can't understand your face, the rest of your dissatisfaction will one day strike back at your feelings.
Super care # 5 about your interaction with the opposite sex
If a man loves you, in fact, all are vinegar buckets. It doesn't matter which opposite sex you are too close to without a man. However, if the opposite sex who is close to you has appeared before him, or the friendship of a large group of friends, then he will maintain his bearing and fake sex "doesn't matter". In fact, he has cursed your heterosexual friend's name thousands of times.
Every sentence of a man doesn't matter. There are possibilities behind him, whether it's true or perfunctory, or even if it's true. You can't always listen to the surface, but also try to feel the emotion of the other side more attentively. Maybe you will think that it is the man who doesn't say anything and insists on holding it in his heart. But occasionally you have to reflect. If he really speaks out, will it be a peaceful ending? Can you accept his sincerity?
Man OS: If I say it doesn't matter, it really doesn't matter. Anyway, what's wrong with me then, I also have an old saying: it doesn't matter. For example, the last time I drove a drunk girl home, I was afraid that she was dangerous. It doesn't matter. Oh, nothing.
