Post Date April, 15 2023
The reasons why men refuse to marry are as follows:
Not prepared mentally. (German psychologists have found that a man's brain is not yet fully developed before the age of 25.)
I believe that the relationship between the two parties has not reached the point of marriage. (I also want to continue enjoying the fun of dating, but I haven't identified the other person.)
Not enough love for girlfriend. (It's not difficult to understand if you have a grudge in your heart.)
I don't want to lose the whole forest. "Once you become married, you lose the position of flirting with new female colleagues."
Inadaptation to changes in one's own role. (Getting married and starting a career is a system for re establishing social identity.) The actual conditions are not yet qualified, and the pressure is high. (After marriage, he must shoulder the responsibilities of both families, and dare not commit rashly before being sure.) Career is paramount. To maintain competitiveness in the workplace, it is necessary to concentrate. In short, men have various needs and aspirations for being single. Oscar Wilde has long said, "Rich bachelors should pay heavy taxes, and it is unfair to make some people happier than others."
Even if a man has various reasons not to marry, you don't have to cooperate with grievances. If you make up your mind to get married, you need to determine two things: 1. Whether the man you're dating doesn't plan to get married. 2。 Do you want to wait for the unmarried man to change his mind. By the way, Carey got married in April this year.
Didn't you explicitly discuss getting married? Let's take a test to understand his mind. How many of the following conditions are consistent with him?
I am very playful and have a drinking party with my buddies every three days or two.
He is a "moonlight clan" who does not care about topics such as housing prices and prices.
Many of your life habits are incompatible.
I have never sent you a very valuable gift.
Don't care about or inquire about your family at all.
I often feel complacent in front of you. Some girls have taken a fancy to him.
I feel that you are too dependent and dislike your interference with him too much.
His work is very busy, occupying 80% of his energy.
I rarely bring you to his friend's wedding.
I have been used to living alone and need a lot of space to be alone.
You've been living together for more than a year and a half, or dating for more than three years.
Never blurted out "After we get married", "Our children" or the like.
You know there's always another woman in his heart.
His original family was not happy.
"His buddy who knows him well never said to you, 'When will we get married?'" Wait for your good news. '"
You are vaguely worried that you are not worthy of him.
If you want to choose a word from "freedom" and "reliability" to describe him, you will choose the former.
Conclusion: If his condition meets three or more criteria. I'm afraid he hasn't even considered getting married. I hate to marry a girl with a burning heart. I need to redefine your relationship.
